Fridaymorning Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 This time 3 years ago I was the happiest girl alive. I'd just met my ex and we'd spend the whole night talking. I still remember the little jokes we used to have. It's so painful. It would of been our anniversary tomorrow. How do I get through it? I want him back but he tells he'll never come back and he is over me. I have to see him every day at school, it's going to make it so much harder, it's hard to see him move on so quickly. Even though we were each others first loves, first everything it doesn't seem to make a difference to him. It's been 2 months for heavens sake! Before the breakup he changed. Found new friends, started living a party lifestyle. I'm hoping now the summer is over and he is forced to fall back in the the routine of school, he'll realised what he threw away and will start to miss me. I know I'm giving myself false hope, it's hard to stop imagining situations where he'll ask me back. I just need support
Legatus Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 He said he wouldn't come back? Well that's all you need to know. You have to start living your life regardless of his actions. Accept the fact that he's gone, only that way you can start to heal. Of course it will be difficult. Your relationship was meaningful and lack of it left an empty hole. Just remember - that hole will be filled with new experiences and memories as soon as you allow yourself to do it!
BigGirlPantiesOn Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 I'm sorry for your loss. Having hope for reconciliation is normal but try to keep it simple. It seems his mindset has changed, and if he has gone into partying ie: drugs, alcohol, it's likely to get worse. I was married to my high school sweetie, who became an alcoholic. There is not winning in that. Take care of you, keep close to your friends and love yourself!!
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