Will NC Take Longer When You Act Pathetic And Crazy During Breakup?

[bentleychic]

Um.. maybe you're not reading my posts correctly? I think you're confusing me with OP. I didn't stalk her, just showed up at her house today since I was in the area. And I certainly didn't threaten to beat anyone up

 

Uh, yeah, I was talking to OP with both of my responses.

[MyFault69]

Well your right. But how do you let go when your thoughts are getting worse and over the self esteem killer that she doesnt want you in her life.

[Kitchen]

Uh, yeah, I was talking to OP with both of my responses.

 

You directly replied to my post (#15) with yours (#16).

[Simon Phoenix]

You directly replied to my post (#15) with yours (#16).

 

Start your own thread then so there's no confusion.

[MyFault69]

Okay if she does contact me how do I show her I've changed by getting a car and good steady job in film? Also how the breakup made me see how superificial and selfish I am and trying to change?

 

Or the big one is if she contacts me how do I get her to hang out with me again?

 

And please if you have no helpful soloutions then please dont answer. I dont want to hear the she wont contact u or its over thing again. It just clogs this thread down.

[bentleychic]

You directly replied to my post (#15) with yours (#16).

 

Start your own thread then so there's no confusion.

 

I was not paying attention to the ID that posted and thought you were the OP.

 

And yes, what Simon said.

[reddragon588]

Okay if she does contact me how do I show her I've changed by getting a car and good steady job in film? Also how the breakup made me see how superificial and selfish I am and trying to change?

 

Or the big one is if she contacts me how do I get her to hang out with me again?

 

And please if you have no helpful soloutions then please dont answer. I dont want to hear the she wont contact u or its over thing again. It just clogs this thread down.

 

If you don't want to hear that she won't contact you, why are you posting? It sounds like the only thing you want to hear is that she will contact you again and be willing to get back together. You need to be willing to hear that it might not work out, because as much as you may not like it, it is a distinct possibility.

 

You can't make anyone do anything. The only way you can show her you've changed is by going out and changing. And you may never get the chance to show her that change because she may not be in your life anymore. But if you really truly are changing it doesn't matter because you will be a better person for it.

[Simon Phoenix]

Okay if she does contact me how do I show her I've changed by getting a car and good steady job in film? Also how the breakup made me see how superificial and selfish I am and trying to change?

 

Or the big one is if she contacts me how do I get her to hang out with me again?

 

And please if you have no helpful soloutions then please dont answer. I dont want to hear the she wont contact u or its over thing again. It just clogs this thread down.

 

You can't. Either she'll choose to see it and have it make an impact or it won't. Stop trying to manipulate. You aren't in control, you've never been in control and you will never be in control of her perception. And stop pissing and moaning because posters aren't telling you what you want to hear.