Spoonss Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 its been 4 months post bu and I thought by now that the pain of losing the girl I loved for 5 years would subside. And for the most part it has most days. She has cut off all contact with me there is no way to even speak to her. I feel ashamed that I am still hung up on her. But man I loved this girl and she Loved me for who I was. Until I ****ed it up and treated her poorly because I was suffering from depression which I have since got treated for and honestly feel great. I just cant help that I lost something so special and a person I was so close with. I cant stop thinking of her and all i want to do is to call her just to talk. I miss my bestfriend. Help.
leafguy Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 Get yourself to a point where you know you can handle talking to her and be rejected. If you had clinical depression, it's a serious issue so sending yourself into a tailspin again would just be hurting yourself more. I mean you were with her for 5 years, contacting her should be easy WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT. That time is when you are not hung up on her. Wait it out, keep getting better and the day you can go without her pain free is the day you contact her.
JDPT Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 Start by accepting that the relationship is over and do not ruminate. Based on what you've disclosed she has made it very clear to you that the relationship ended long ago. Dust yourself off and move forward with your life. You need to embark on your recovery process the sooner the better.
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