swandive83 Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 I seriously can not stop thinking about the ex and the (possible?) new girl? I want to know if they're officially together or not. I see them talking all the time. Half of my friends think that they are together, the other half says they might just be friends. And Im just having so much anxiety, doing some facebook, twitter, and IG stalking to try to figure it out. When does this finally stop?
melell Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 Unfortunately. It stops when you ignore desires to know about them. I would be setting myself up for devastation if I even looked at my ex's facebook. For me it just isn't worth it. The only way to stop obsessing is to tell yourself 'It is over with this person, we will never know each other again'. Hurts like hell facing that, but once you do it just becomes illogical to think about them. That is what has happened to me. There is no logic thinking about them, so most of the time I don't and when I do I just tell myself 'They are gone, this is illogical'. After awhile that helps. I recently had contact with my ex, though brief, it did hurt. But still I am just like there is no point in thinking about this. Looking into their lives, wondering what they are doing, talking about them etc is setting yourself up for a whole world of hurt, meaning that you are robbing yourself of time where you could actually be happy. I will say at the start I learnt this the hard way. It is so much better now. It does get better, take care of yourself. 2
tart6245 Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 It gets better. You eventually move on and find someone else or something else to occupy your time, and you will think of that person less and less until the day comes where you don't think of them hardly at all. I still think about my ex from time to time after a year and a half, but we've been able to have conversations off and on and be friendly to one another.
saltyfishhead666 Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 You block them or delet facebook. I kept looking, but in the end I couldn't take it anymore. It still said we were engaged, he still went on like nothing ever happened and no one would know he had shattered me into a million pieces. Wednesday I deleted my Facebook and I've not been on since. Only another 10 days of not logging in and my profile shall be gone x
hurts2death Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 the profiles get deleted if someone doesnt log on? we used to state engaged in our profiles 2 years back then we deactivated both since... i guess we cannot activate each right? they get deleted? i didnt know that
saltyfishhead666 Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 I'm not entirely sure it's just if the profile is deactivated. I googled and followed a special Facebook link to delete it completely. However still takes them 14 days so it says
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