saltyfishhead666 Posted September 1, 2013 Posted September 1, 2013 Well I mentioned last week when I wrote my original post about breaking up my period was late... Well I'm pregnant.
melell Posted September 1, 2013 Posted September 1, 2013 Congrats!! It'll work out one way or another. But make sure what you do is with the best interests of your child in mind. It is better for them to grow up with boundaries in place and separated parents than it is to grow up in a superficial family home and have to deal with the separation while they are young and fragile.
Author saltyfishhead666 Posted September 2, 2013 Author Posted September 2, 2013 Luckily for me he's a fabulous dad to his girls and was a fabulous father figure to my kids. Unfortunately I told him and it was ignored. I guess he doesn't believe me even though he calls me missus fertile.
hurts2death Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 mummyjonno hang in there you will make it
barky2 Posted September 3, 2013 Posted September 3, 2013 Congrats! Is this what you wanted? Is it the the exs that you've posted about it here? Barky
unexpectedlyhere Posted September 3, 2013 Posted September 3, 2013 It should be your decision anyway so if he doesn't want to know for now it doesn't matter -- he may be thinking you're playing games to see if he would come back or something like that. If you decide to go ahead with the pregnancy, try contacting him again closer to the birth (when you feel better too! I hear the first trimester is the worst!) and discussing his potential involvement.
barky2 Posted September 3, 2013 Posted September 3, 2013 where do babes come from? A stork drops them off at your doorstep...duh! BarkyBarky
Author saltyfishhead666 Posted September 3, 2013 Author Posted September 3, 2013 (edited) Yes i am "on my third kid by 25" I was married to my sons father, engaged to my daughters and engaged to this one. I am a special needs carer to my son with severe autism, a full time mum, a fully qualified WORKING accountant and I have my own house. That is more than can be said for most people. I am a responsible adult. Just because it didn't work with 3 people doesn't mean I deserve to be alone! Edited September 3, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Response to deleted quote edited
Author saltyfishhead666 Posted September 3, 2013 Author Posted September 3, 2013 Congrats! Is this what you wanted? Is it the the exs that you've posted about it here? Barky Thanks barky. It is indeedy. I've only had 3 relationships all long term with a big gap in the middle. We were openly trying so I am overjoyed even if its terrible timing. Then again we were trying with the thought of being married and together in the same house. Luckily I'm a tough cookie xx
Author saltyfishhead666 Posted September 3, 2013 Author Posted September 3, 2013 It should be your decision anyway so if he doesn't want to know for now it doesn't matter -- he may be thinking you're playing games to see if he would come back or something like that. If you decide to go ahead with the pregnancy, try contacting him again closer to the birth (when you feel better too! I hear the first trimester is the worst!) and discussing his potential involvement. Thanks for the advice. He probably does think that, I'd already thought that before too. But I'm a single parent and have been for some time. If he doesn't want to know then that will be on his conscious. Although the father I know he is he will come around for his own child. Xx
Author saltyfishhead666 Posted September 3, 2013 Author Posted September 3, 2013 Have you made him aware yet? Barky I did tell him however he's away fishing for the army right now so no doubt he's concentrating on that and I may or may hear from him when the matches have finished. X
barky2 Posted September 3, 2013 Posted September 3, 2013 IMHO, you guy should talk about what you guys want to do. If its not the right time its not the right time. The last thing you need in your life right now is more stress. And that's exactly what I would tell my sister Barky
Author saltyfishhead666 Posted September 3, 2013 Author Posted September 3, 2013 I know I know. Hopefully we will. But it looks like I'll be waiting until he's ready. X
barky2 Posted September 3, 2013 Posted September 3, 2013 sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders you'll do the right thing whatever that may be. Barky
hurts2death Posted September 3, 2013 Posted September 3, 2013 Ahaze we are not objects we have souls..... life is just the simple things.... if my girl would do absortion i would burn their hole family alive while they sleep.... you dont have the right to kill a human.... on the other hand ofcourse you have to be carefulll just that....
Author saltyfishhead666 Posted September 3, 2013 Author Posted September 3, 2013 I guess that repulsive individual has gone now as I can't see any of his posts. Stupid little boy with no life skills. Such a shame his view is the only one. Never mind eh
Omei Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 Ahaze we are not objects we have souls..... life is just the simple things.... if my girl would do absortion i would burn their hole family alive while they sleep.... you dont have the right to kill a human.... on the other hand ofcourse you have to be carefulll just that.... Gosh what a hypocrite. 1
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