Dreamer100 Posted September 1, 2013 Posted September 1, 2013 I dumped my boyfriend thinking he cheated but later discovered he didn't. Words were exchanged and he wound up angry. We havn't contacted each other in over 3 weeks. He loves me and wants to be with me but is struggling to trust me and is also going through issues of his own. He said before we stopped contacting that he has a lot on his mind and can't work through'us' at the moment. Should I hold out hope? I love him and know he loves me but the lack of contact feels like a brush off despite him saying that is not what he was doing Would really appreciate advice!
saltyfishhead666 Posted September 1, 2013 Posted September 1, 2013 You didn't trust your boyfriend, that is a huge problem in your relationship already. You should get your facts right before accusing someone of something like that. No one can answer your question, it all depends on the things he has to work through. Maybe he will, maybe he won't.
Author Dreamer100 Posted September 1, 2013 Author Posted September 1, 2013 I over reacted terribly when I saw some pictures which were very suspicious and felt so so hurt. I wished I had been calm about the whole thing and I might have been more happy with my decision. I suppose it's a mistake I won't make again :/
saltyfishhead666 Posted September 1, 2013 Posted September 1, 2013 It is a mistake and to be honest with you, most women would kick off too so don't feel so bad about it. I remember kicking off at my ex for being on match.com Turns out he joined while we were broken up and couldn't delete his profile until his paid subscription was over. We all make mistakes, just gotta learn from them x
Author Dreamer100 Posted September 2, 2013 Author Posted September 2, 2013 Ah right, yes. I suppose will put it down to experience and try and grow from here!
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