Dolorosa Posted September 1, 2013 Posted September 1, 2013 My ex broke up with me 2 and a half months ago, after 9 years we have a house to sort out, dogs we own together the lot!! We had a period of NC and I moved out. Problem is we now have to talk about dogs, stuff etc and its so damn hard. I saw him today, had a coffee at what was our house and cant work out why he's so keen to be there for me, get in my favourite coffee, run to get me after sun as I was sunburned. I don't know whether he just thinks were friends now and all is good in the world or whether he still has feelings for me. He initiates most contact, and if he thinks I need anything hes off getting it for me but other than that he says nothing emotional at all. As he hurt me so much I am not inclined to ask and I just try to keep everything lighthearted. Any thoughts? Has anyone here had a similar experience? I don't know whether I should just say to him no - leave me alone or I should try and make a friendship work. Thanks and sorry for the long post
hurts2death Posted September 1, 2013 Posted September 1, 2013 after 9 years? i would say if you are good and umderstanding people stay friends
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