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Husband got mad at me for giving him his B day gift 2 days earlier!

Helena1975

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Just wanted to surprise my husband with B cake and gift. He came home and my 4 year old and I gave him cake and a gift just to see him uncomfortable and angry that him b day wasn't until 2 days later. He make feel strange and shocked that I actually got him mad. We had an exchange of what people do and how early before b day it is ok to celebrate. But he just kept saying it wasn't his b day and I am off with my arrangement and wrong as usually. He make me cry and left me alone crying he did not feel sorry that he make me feel bad. I am confused if there was something I did wrong or not?

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This is really weird. You did something nice for him and he completely overreacted.

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Why didn't you give him the piece of cake on his birthday?

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His B day was Tuesday. So I wanted to surprise him Sunday since my 4 year old could not wait to give daddy a gift she made for him. So I gave him cake little earlier.

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His B day was Tuesday. So I wanted to surprise him Sunday since my 4 year old could not wait to give daddy a gift she made for him. So I gave him cake little earlier.

 

That is such a sweet thoughtful thing to do, does he know this was the reason?

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He said you were wrong 'as usual'?

 

Does he often berate you? Has he made you cry before by putting you down?

 

It sounds like this may be a much deeper issue than an early celebration.

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He actually did put me down many times. I usually don't make science, mix things up, I don't have basic for conversations, I do things on purpose to make him mad, I don't like people, I am disrespectfully ..

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He actually did put me down many times. I usually don't make science, mix things up, I don't have basic for conversations, I do things on purpose to make him mad, I don't like people, I am disrespectfully ..

 

He sounds very abusive.

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I tought that he should not be unhappy when celebrating b day early. If he did it to me I would be pleased. Once it was my b day but he was on a business trip he came back one day after my b day and nothing for me at all. I thought maybe the next day he will take to dinner or something but nothing happed at all. He actually give me a call on b day from his business trip to wish me happy b day. But when he was back he did nothing in person. I ask him about it and he said that he was thing about doing something for my b day.

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It would be the last time I did anything for him

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It's kind of weird to jump the gun. Maybe he thought you forgot the actual date or something.

 

He did overreact but...why couldn't you just wait 2 more days? Children need to understand as well that waiting for things is an important part of life and you can't necessarily do things RIGHT NOW just because you want to.

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