Amelie1980 Posted September 1, 2013 Posted September 1, 2013 Hi getting dumped again after a 2 month dating thing. he's under stress not in the right place to.date and doesn't feel head over heels for me. Fine ok. but he's calling to do the honourable thing later: he didn't by text. what the hell do I say. just accept graciously?
Author Amelie1980 Posted September 1, 2013 Author Posted September 1, 2013 Also my ex from last year sent an email out of nowhere. about something he had seen and maybe I would like it. Just ignore. not seen him since November last year.
HappyLove Posted September 1, 2013 Posted September 1, 2013 Yup, at least he didn't just disappear leaving you a crying confused mess. Just wish him the best and move on. No point asking why or crying and making a scene. Make him leave confused as to how your so calm about it. And don't under any circumstance contact him after.
Author Amelie1980 Posted September 1, 2013 Author Posted September 1, 2013 I'm.gonna just say that I think he's great guy and will be sorry to not see him anymore. And that I would think it odd to feel head over heels after a few dates and that it takes time to develop common ground. I tried to develop it but all he talked about was work when we went out. Which was understandable. Ok or no?
HappyLove Posted September 1, 2013 Posted September 1, 2013 And if it was me I wouldn't want to have a long drawn out conversation about it either, give it 5-10min and get off the phone with him first...you take control.
HappyLove Posted September 1, 2013 Posted September 1, 2013 I'm.gonna just say that I think he's great guy and will be sorry to not see him anymore. And that I would think it odd to feel head over heels after a few dates and that it takes time to develop common ground. I tried to develop it but all he talked about was work when we went out. Which was understandable. Ok or no? Just my opinion but I wouldn't even do that much. The whole I found it odd thing.... Screw him he's breaking up with you I just wouldn't give him the satisfaction. I'd just say well thanks for letting me know how you feel. I had a great time with you, take care. 1
hopefulfaerie Posted September 1, 2013 Posted September 1, 2013 Yup, at least he didn't just disappear leaving you a crying confused mess. Just wish him the best and move on. No point asking why or crying and making a scene. Make him leave confused as to how your so calm about it. And don't under any circumstance contact him after. I agree! I didn't even get a text! He just disappeared....... I wouldn't have been near as devastated if I got a "Bugger Off!" " Not working for me" "Take care" "Go to Hell" Anything!!!!! I would just act like it doesn't even phase you. WAAAAY EASIER SAID THAN DONE!!!! I know! Hang in there! 3
saltyfishhead666 Posted September 1, 2013 Posted September 1, 2013 Hi getting dumped again after a 2 month dating thing. he's under stress not in the right place to.date and doesn't feel head over heels for me. Fine ok. but he's calling to do the honourable thing later: he didn't by text. what the hell do I say. just accept graciously? He shouldn't have been dating you if he is not in the place to date right now. However he's a human and he's not perfect. He could be heartbroken and trying to move on and its just not "right" The others are right. He could have easily ignored you, been a d*ck and left you hanging. Just say your sorry that he feels that way and goodbye end of poof gonzo xx 1
Nicoleiia Posted September 1, 2013 Posted September 1, 2013 Lol when me and my ex were going out, my ex said " I would never break up with someone by text! Who does that??" And then the next day, broke up with me by text. I think that you should keep the convo very short. No more than 2 minutes and then go NC after that. Its annoying getting dumped after a short period, so don't talk to him anymore.
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