Dreamer100 Posted September 1, 2013 Posted September 1, 2013 I'm currently in the middle of no contact with my ex boyfriend, who I dumped hastily and a recklessly over a misunderstanding. Thinking he had cheated on me, I said a few things which I knew would hurt him. A couple of weeks later (and many apologies later), I realised I had made a mistake and I tried to get him back. He says he loves me but feels he may not be able to trust me. However, I was the last one to contact him but since I did not receive a response, I am now choosing not to get in contact with him again. It's been over 3 weeks now and still no contact from him. He didn't completely ignore any text I've sent him- we would always exchange a few messages then he wouldn't respond. Before this 3 week no contact period, he had not responded to me in 5 days so I pulled him up and asked him to be frank with me about his feelings and not to brush me off and he responded saying that that was not what he was trying to do and that he had alot on his mind. Throughout our relationship, he was the keener party and I was never needy of attention so it was hard to see him shut down. I know as much that he does have a couple of pretty major personal issues to deal with at the moment so perhaps that is why I am not getting the response? Or maybe that is far fetched and if he really wanted me, he would have made contact by now? I feel this is different from usual no contact questions as I know for sure he's dealing with other issues. P.S I miss him alot
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