does he care and is it really over for good???

[sexyrunwaymodel1]

ok there has been this guy i have been going out with for about a month and some he is in the marines in san diego and im here in san bernardino so we are kind of far away. but n.e ways ever since the first day i met him (witch is through my sister) we were totally feeling each other alot we both told each other that and i could tell but this last vetrians week that i was down there (cause i only see him when i dont have school so basically on the weekends only) it just seemed so different he acted so distant from me i dont know if it was because i was on my period or what but then one night while i was down there we really got into it because i knew he didnt want to have sex with me because i was on my rag (sorry if this sounds nasty) so i thought that i would give him a bj cause i knew he was having a bad day, and he knows i dont do that only once before and that was with him because of past reasons and so in the middle of it i stop and he says "ur not going to let me in ur mouth" and i sayed fu** no thats nast and he got mad and took me to my sisters later well i asked him to and he went to some club and got drunk. and ditched me again on the next night, so since i live far away he took me home after i asked him to stay and went to a strip club, so of course i am going to be mad who wouldnt i live an hour and a half away from him and he did that sh**. so the next night i tryed to call and he didnt answer so i left him a message saying that it wasnt going to work cause he has been acting like a dick all week and i think he was cheating on me anyway and he could take her to the ball (there is a ball this week for the marines) so he called me back and was kind of yelling and saying that he knows its not going to work and he doesnt need a serious relationship right now cause he was leaving to florida in january and i have brought that up before and he sayed dont worry about. but n.e ways he told me that he thinks im mad hot and still thinks im a cool person and wants to be friends but i dont know if i can do that i know i fu**ed up by leaving him that message and i told him but he seemed like that it was what he wanted, so do u think that we could get back together or is that it? and im sorry if this doesnt make since but can u try to give me advice.(o and i still do want to go with him to the ball even if just friends but i dont want to ask him)

[Starnette83]

why do u want him back?? hes a dick

[bluechocolate]

Originally posted by Starnette83

why do u want him back?? hes a dick

exactly what I was thinking.

[Weird]

first, learn to use these things called paragraphs. My goodness.

 

Second, it was only a month relationship and the guy doesnt sound like he is a great guy. Why care?

[sexyrunwaymodel1]

beacuse before this weekend he really did show me that he cared he was the nices guy i have ever been with and ya it was only a month but time doesnt matter if u really like someone

[bluechocolate]

honey, this guy has zero respect for women, you wanna be his ho - go right ahead - I doubt you'll be very happy.

[savethedrama4allama]

Originally posted by sexyrunwaymodel1

so do u think that we could get back together or is that it?

 

 

Get back together? Were you ever together? Doesn't sound like it. And I'm sorry, but someone saying you're "mad hot" and a "cool person" isn't a compliment. Any man who gets mad and takes you somewhere else to get away from you because you won't let him bust in your mouth has SERIOUS issues.

[morrigan]

This guy is a primo loser--any girl would be better off without him. I would personally not see him again.

 

There are nice guys out there who don't demand sexual favors, yell at you, or cheat on you. They are worth a lot more concern than this bag of crap.