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I broke up with my GF of 2years 5months ago , I begged her for 1month than went NC because she found another boyfriend but over the last month she's back into mylife she's soo nice to me I actually like it but I can't help it thinking she'l friendzone me , what must I do guys ? Will NC change the way she sees me "friend" ? She'l never come back

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frieindzoned, as in friends with benefits, this need not be an ordeal, friends talk, they drink, you know each other well, must have plenty to say

 

NC seems a bit out of the blue

 

you are getting on well

 

do not give her the silent treatment, ffs

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Friend zoning is not FWB. Only you can tell yourself if you are ready. I know that I am not because someone mentioned her updating Facebook. Right away my heart starting racing and I got seething in anger. So I'm not ready! Are you?

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frieindzoned, as in friends with benefits, this need not be an ordeal, friends talk, they drink, you know each other well, must have plenty to say

 

NC seems a bit out of the blue

 

you are getting on well

 

do not give her the silent treatment, ffs

 

Yes we are getting along well , but I don't want her to friendzone me because I still very much love her* , but what I like about this whole situation is I've just about 3months left before I graduate from school , so it will be a automatic silent treatment :)

& what do u mean by ffs

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Friend zoning is not FWB. Only you can tell yourself if you are ready. I know that I am not because someone mentioned her updating Facebook. Right away my heart starting racing and I got seething in anger. So I'm not ready! Are you?

 

I have her on facebook , she doesn't affect me I see her updates all the time.

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Yes we are getting along well , but I don't want her to friendzone me because I still very much love her* , but what I like about this whole situation is I've just about 3months left before I graduate from school , so it will be a automatic silent treatment :)

& what do u mean by ffs

 

ffs =for ****'s sake

 

see what happens over 3 months, you have a bit of control of the outcome because you know her, her hopes, worries, her sense of humour

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Well then if that's how you feel. Then I guess continue on. You are the better judge of yourself than any other of us.

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nerdlingZA Established Member

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ffs =for ****'s sake

 

see what happens over 3 months, you have a bit of control of the outcome because you know her, her hopes, worries, her sense of humour

 

Yeah , so do you think I should ask her to go with me to my prom ? Its 3months away now ?

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Well then if that's how you feel. Then I guess continue on. You are the better judge of yourself than any other of us.

 

What I'm tryna say is she doesn't affect me ! But at the same time I don't want her to friendzone me , at the same time I know that NC = we will never talk to each other again , I've done it before. I still very much love her but I can cope.

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Prom? How old are you?!

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Yeah , so do you think I should ask her to go with me to my prom ? Its 3months away now ?

 

ask her what she will be wearing to the Prom, yes ask her to go with you, I hope this goes well for you, my most significant other n me for 25 years had stops and starts, but they settle down, just act brotherly at all times, my heads-up

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Prom? How old are you?!

 

I'm 17years old

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If you have tried everything to get her back (begging , crying)

 

Call her a "DUDE" or "BRA"

 

She will freak out & she will try to make you call her "sweetheart" , "hun" etc , I tried this with my Ex just now lol.

Women work with emotions never try to be nice to an ex , always be nasty. But don't make contact & be nasty let them make contact & be nasty. If you are nice you won't get anywhere.

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Huh?

 

What are you exactly attempting to accomplish here?

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OP are you from South Africa? Also I doubt calling your ex a dude or bra will result in a positive response.

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Yeah calling her a boobie lifter is some major manipulation...

 

Some people smh:laugh:

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I believe OP is a fellow saffer and therefore bra means the same as "bro"

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If you have tried everything to get her back (begging , crying)

 

Call her a "DUDE" or "BRA"

 

She will freak out & she will try to make you call her "sweetheart" , "hun" etc , I tried this with my Ex just now lol.

Women work with emotions never try to be nice to an ex , always be nasty. But don't make contact & be nasty let them make contact & be nasty. If you are nice you won't get anywhere.

 

Can I have a ride on that magic dragon? ;)

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This sounds like a subtle and cunning way to establish dominance. I wouldn't dismiss this idea so quickly.

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Bra means boobie holder end of. Bra only means bro to someone whose daft!

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Huh?

 

What are you exactly attempting to accomplish here?

 

Power ? If u are weak "been nice" u are not likely to get back with Ex , by doing this after u've begged u actually take away power

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Huh?

 

What are you exactly attempting to accomplish here?

 

OP are you from South Africa? Also I doubt calling your ex a dude or bra will result in a positive response.

 

Yeah I'm south african

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This sounds like a subtle and cunning way to establish dominance. I wouldn't dismiss this idea so quickly.

 

Everyone here should consider this idea , but nooo loveshackers always go by the rules.

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Bra means boobie holder end of. Bra only means bro to someone whose daft!

Well aren't you a little ray of sunshine. You do realize there are other languages other than English, right?

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Huh?

 

What are you exactly attempting to accomplish here?

 

I have no idea, but it's funny and I can definitely see it working with some women.

 

All he has to do it bang a H on the end of that 'Bra' and she's gonna FLIP :D

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