would any women want me

[joel]

all i am saying is reading from this posts and also other forums, and being a asian male is it true that if u don't have money no women would want me to be their bf. i mean most asian women are off with the wm and the af with the am are in nice cars and successful.

me i am in community college if i finsih this program in business i be happy to get a job, i doubt i be rich or make any kind of big money. -i barely finshed HS and be happy with a girl that wants me for me. , i am 5 7 145lbs asian male. the only thing i have is probably decnet looks and a full head of hair.i'm like an average grade student C+ or something like that. classmate told me chixs in vancovuer are more materliatic than chixs in the east coast- when i ask him why he said b/c of the cost of living her in van is more

 

if i can't find work related to my field of study-i'm not sure how many girls would go for me. how many girls would date or marry a guy who had a less education and makde less money than em

 

my folks are like this just study hard and make tons of money and when u have tons of money every girl would want u, u don;t have to chase after em they chase after u-what do u guys think of that.

[Barby]

Why would you want a woman who would only want a man for their money? Maybe you're seeking out the wrong type of women. A woman should want you for who you are, not what you have.

[dwsgirl]

I guess that depends on what kind of woman you want to be with. If you want a materialistic, gold-digger then take your parents advice and get a job that you make a tons of cash at. Doesn't necessarily mean women will chase after you though.

 

If you want a woman who wants to be with you for you then finish school and find a job your happy with. Contrary to popular belief, there are alot of women who are happy with men who make less than they do and have less education. For some people love and compatibility are the main reasons they're with a person....not money.

 

Maybe just focus on school and landing a job you like then worry about relationship issues later. There are alot of women out there who will date you because of the kind of person you are and not how fat your wallet is. You may have to look past the superficial things though...keep that in mind. Good luck to you!

[DJ_Dork]

humans are higher than animals, if your focus is on woman then you are no different than animal males whose sole purpose is to mate with women. women are the weaker gender.

[daterhater]

Money schmoney. Maybe at 22 I just am not looking for a man to support me, but I'm more interested in personality and intelligence. Most of the guys I've been interested in have been artists. Graduate ceramics art students who obviously won't be making any money or musicians touring the US making just enough to get from city to city.

 

Find a job that makes you happy. Not a job that'll make enough money to make some bitch happy.

[savethedrama4allama]

Let me tell you about the man I was married to. He made more money per year at 21 then most men will make per year at their peak salary. He was stingy as hell. The only jewelry he ever bought me besides my wedding rings (which admittedly were decent) was a cubic zirconia necklace. He drove a new car while I drove an 8 year old unreliable hooptie. He put me on a $100 per month allowance for clothes, personal products even though I made almost $40,000 a year myself. He didn't get me anything for birthdays or Christmas usually, and if he did it was under $50. We had no debt besides our mortgage, no school loans or high interest credit cards, we weren't hurting financially.

 

What I realize now is when it comes to money its not about how much money you have, but how generous you are with what you have. Any woman who doesn't realize that isn't good enough for you anyway.

[daterhater]

Originally posted by savethedrama4yrmama

Let me tell you about the man I was married to. He made more money per year at 21 then most men will make per year at their peak salary. He was stingy as hell. The only jewelry he ever bought me besides my wedding rings (which admittedly were decent) was a cubic zirconia necklace. He drove a new car while I drove an 8 year old unreliable hooptie. He put me on a $100 per month allowance for clothes, personal products even though I made almost $40,000 a year myself. He didn't get me anything for birthdays or Christmas usually, and if he did it was under $50. We had no debt besides our mortgage, no school loans or high interest credit cards, we weren't hurting financially.

 

What I realize now is when it comes to money its not about how much money you have, but how generous you are with what you have. Any woman who doesn't realize that isn't good enough for you anyway.

 

 

what an a**h***

[iceprincess]

What type of girl are you looking for anyway?! Where do you live??!! You need to move and see that there are other GIRLS out there! Sounds like you're surrounded by materialistic girls or maybe you're just looking at the wrong ones. I think you are subconsciosly thinking that you won't be able to give your future-bride the kind of things you think she should have.

 

Don't be so hard on yourself; you never know, things can change so fast. School isn't for everyone and I know it's a lot of pressure when you have your parents telling you to be academically success and to find a high-paying job so that you can be rich. As the saying goes, "Richness doesn't buy happiness".

 

I think you should stop worrying about how other people, GIRLS, view you and start doing things that'll make YOU happy. It's not about them, it's about you and if you feel that girls have to like you to make you feel better than you're not going to get any where. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with you, but building up a little bit more self-confidence will do you good.

[joel]

thanks guys for the great advice-sounds like what my folks said isn'ta ll that true-just gotta find the right one