Jodini Posted September 1, 2013 Posted September 1, 2013 I have been so down for a month now:( panic attacks, nightmares, depression.. The guy I was dating and totally in love with for over a year (we were engaged, I met his family).. was cheating on me for a couple of months before he ended it with me and then went public with her (on facebook) 2 weeks after ending with me -devastating:( but worst thing is - denied the cheating and accused ME of cheating (infact he was constantly jealous, suspicious and accusing me of cheating so I was often on defensive throughout the relationship) -and then when I was angry and hurt about him calling me a cheat and moving on so fast.. and tried to defend myself to someone he knows, he threatened me, was nasty to me, hacked my accounts and accused me of being a stalker as well as a cheat. Funnily enough, his ex wife and the girlfriend before me were cheaters too..now I realise he was projecting his own behaviour on to me and them. It doesn't stop it hurting like hell - am really not coping well..at the age of 41 nothing this nasty has happened to me before - I've had bad relationships, but not someone moving on so fast and a smear campaign against me I'm hoping I can let go of my obsession with him little by little.. I am just still in massive shock about it. Why would someone behave this way? Thanks for reading and letting me vent my emotion on here.
Jonah Posted September 1, 2013 Posted September 1, 2013 I'm sorry you have to suffer this Jodini. It seems like you ran across a scoundrel there. But oh my it could have been so much worse. Thank your lucky stars that you found out now instead of later. There are others that get totally ripped off too. You can take it that there was a reason this happened to you so that you would be more aware in the future, that when you do find someone that is more like you that you will appreciate them more than if this hadn't happened to you. And hey, don't take it personal... From an outsiders point of view you are just one lucky gal and we are rooting for you a quick recovery, that your heart may be open for real love when it comes. Jonah 1
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