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I was out with friends tonight


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I went out tonight and hung out with some old friends of mine whom I haven't seen in some time. We were in a place where I connected with my ex. She wasn't there, and I didn't expect her to be, but they asked me about her as they didn't know we split.

 

It's been over four months since we split and since we've had a conversation, and nearly three and a half since I have attempted contact.

 

I'll admit that tonight got me nostalgic, but that is the extent. Those feelings of want for her no longer exist. I loved her then, and since it was true I still love her now. I'm not ashamed. I don't want to be with her; I hope she can live and love someday should she choose.

 

It gets better, for those out there struggling. Work on bettering yourself.

 

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Good for you!!!

 

Your'e ALLOWED to be at places that remind you of your EX, the ex shouldn't prevent you from enjoying life. He/she should not dictate where you go,

 

It took me a LONG TIME to go anywhere that reminded me of my ex. Simple truth is I sincerely doubt my EX stopped going there.

 

Enjoy it!! Correct, it DOES get better! Keep up the good life!

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Wished I was there like you Oldcatskinner. Someday, someday.... It must be nice to feel that way, the calmness, the clarity, the acceptance. the progress.....

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