Tk123 Posted September 1, 2013 Posted September 1, 2013 Hey all. I'm having a big problem and need some assistance. About a month ago, I broke up with my ex of 8 months. It hurt to let her go but it seemed to be the right thing at the time. Around 1 week later, I started talking to this other girl who is conveniently my new neighbor (I've just recently moved). She has openly admitted to me that she is attracted to me and things started going very fast. Before I knew it after a couple of days of texting, we were talking about what we wanted to do to each other (I won't get graphic, you get the idea). However, deep down I really have no feelings for this girl. I don't know how to break it to her. I am afraid I'm going to hurt her and don't know how to tell her I'm still not over my ex. Luckily she is going away to college soon so I won't see her much however, I don't want to be on her bad side. She has a nice family whom I've met already and they seem to like me. I could really use some help on how I should handle this situation. What do I say to this new girl?
Philosoraptor Posted September 3, 2013 Posted September 3, 2013 Either just taper it back and let her go off to college without acting on anything or let her know you are recently removed from a relationship and not ready for anything serious right now. If she still wants to sleep with you without any strings... then well... you make the call there.
ExpatInItaly Posted September 3, 2013 Posted September 3, 2013 Does she have deep feelings for you and want a relationship? Maybe she feels the same way you do and is just having some fun. Try to back off in the time between now and her departure. If she's not catching the signs, tell her that you're not prepared to have a long-distance relationship and that it'd be best to just be friends.
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