Freddy192 Posted September 1, 2013 Posted September 1, 2013 Met this very chill, cute girl on an OLD. We've been on multiple dates, even fooled around a bit in her bed one night. I kind of had a hunch she either wasn't over her ex or he was still in the picture, because on one of our dates I noticed her phone blowing up and she continued to ignore it. I did a little crafty detective work and matched the name I saw on her cell to a recent exbf of hers. There's been little signs ive picked up that she was trying to get over him while we were going out on dates. I've kind of been pretty passive with her since, and she has been pretty distant the past few weeks as well. I haven't taken her out in over a month, she says she's been going through some hectic stuff in her life (im sure >_>). I saw she put up a photo of her and her ex together on FB, because it's his birthday. Kind of what I expected. I didn't write her off or delete her number because I figure she may still be an option if not now, possibly down the road because we did have chemistry. I like the girl, but is she worth staying in touch with until she 'figures things out' ? I'm definitely dating other women so I'm not waiting around for her, but if she came back around I'd still be interested. I guess I'm just not sure what to do with her. Forget about her, or keep her number and briefly stay in contact every now and then?
Philosoraptor Posted September 3, 2013 Posted September 3, 2013 I'd say just keep moving on with your life and if she comes back into it, make sure she is a bit more stable before making anything serious with her.
Woop1337 Posted September 3, 2013 Posted September 3, 2013 You haven't taken her out in a month. And she hasn't asked why you haven't taken her out in a month? Most likely, its over. I'm dealing with the same thing. I just do enough to keep myself in her radar, but I've been on dates with other women. You just keep doing what your doing. 1
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