lattimershotgun Posted November 15, 2004 Posted November 15, 2004 K here we go guys... new girl. shes in my classes every day at college. After about 4 or 5 weeks of tlkaing at school alot and hangingout around there we hung out one weekend and ended up kissing her goodnight. the following wekend we hungout and madeout a ****load, then made out the next day sunday when seh came over for studying. when we talked then she said we both needed the same things in life and loved being with me. we get along great, but the odd thing is is when we are in class. ever since we started hangingout outside of school, we dotn talk as much in class and when we go to the car to say goodbye seomteims we kiss soemtimes we dont.. but for the past 3 weeks i have wanted to hangout and we havent hungout at all and she started to get kinda busy with school and stuff. So does that mean she interested anymore and just acting busy? Then jsut lastnight i hungout wiht her(me and my freinds and her adn her freinds at a club) for the first time in 3 weeks and we got along great just like in class and just like before... i mean we have all the same calsses 5 days a week so we see alot of each other already in school but that is differnt then when u see someone on a date. we are the same major and same minor, i mean we are identical and both have broncos ahah i mean alot is the same ****. she is mroe of a bar type out going girl adn im more of the stay at home type. the thing is i can tell she still likes me when she smiles at me and flirts.. she jsut has a way of showing it and i can tell she and i are still attracted but i dont know why it took 3 weeks to hangout again. and also why she dsont want to make time to see me outside of class. if u are interested insomeone it woudl seem like u woudl make time to see them outsdie of calss even if u are busy with work and school. Should i jsut keep waiting itout and feel like im getting led on? or shoudl i ask her and be sorta upfrotn like.. and ask her sorta whats going on? becase she seemed all about me.. and if u think i shodul say someting what shoudl i say?
Shuffty Posted November 15, 2004 Posted November 15, 2004 Say summat. Tell her she's messing with your head and you want to know where you stand. If she asks if you want to be with her or whatever, be honest with her but make it clear you don't want her playing with you. I'm not saying be mean to her or anything, she might be as confused as you, and be waiting for you to make a move, so do it! Be direct from the start, it's the best way. Are you in the same kind of social groups at college, or does she hang around with other people?
Author lattimershotgun Posted November 15, 2004 Author Posted November 15, 2004 out of school we have very different type freinds but in school we have the exact same group of freinds. we alll hangout out occasion between classes, when its not jsut me and Rebbecca.
Shuffty Posted November 16, 2004 Posted November 16, 2004 If you hang around together it's not like she doesn't know you, i mean if she's made out with you a s--t load, she can't claim she never liked you and she probably still does. Tell her you don't understand what's going on and want her to be straight with you and stop stringing you along. She might not even realise she's doing it. But if she's doing it deliberately, i say she's not worth the hassle, let her mess with someone elses head. Good luck.
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