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Just wondering what other people's views are of this situation that i am in. I have a girlfriend and we both tell each other that we are in love. We are engaged, and she seemed sincere to me. But a while ago, we talked about buying a house, and unknown to me, her parents put 20,000 dollars down as a deposit, without me being informed about the deals of the purchase, etc. I then scrambled and made arrangements to buy the house, got a mortgage deal in place, etc. But then my girlfriend said that she did not want a mortgage, that she wanted me to pay cash, and then squashed the deal and said lets not buy it then. Well, the deposit is non refundable, and now she told me a week ago that until i pay her parents back the money she will not see me. That i have to prove my trust. Or she will not be with me again. So, my question is this. Should love be conditional on something like this? Am i maybe being set up here, in that she gets the money back, for her parents, then dumps me, cause i would not buy her a house? What are your thoughts? I am just trying to figure out if she is not being honorable here, if she even really loves me.

 

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Look nobody told her or her parent to put a down payment for the darn house. I really think she is acting selfish and wronfully. Think about it twice before you jump into a marriage with this woman she does not sound honest to me.

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