I got a 2nd chance but am very

[Loveheralot]

So here is my story I have been dating this girl for 4 years. We both really love each other and I know that. I can tell anyone in the world i am not going to ever date anyone else even if we break up. So anyways I ended up committing a big mistake a couple weeks ago and I cheated on her(I know I'm a terrible person for doing so and I feel like crap

. I told her that I did cheat because I'm a honest person. So she said she needed some days to process it and we broke up for a week. She said when we got back together her words were. " I forgive you, and I'm ready to be us again, with time". So it's been 3 days being together again and I love her and I can tell she's happy with me and loves me too but still kinda sketchy on the trust part which is expected. So she told one of her friends She wasnt as mad as she should be and When we were broken up for a week she told her friend she was flirting with a fed ex guy that came to deliever a package at her work and I'm really nervous about that. I feel like she might want to get back at me but idk if she will. Should I just let it pass and ignore it?

[Amyjay]

Why did you cheat on her?

[Misfortune]

I don't think cheating is a sign of really loving someone but that's just me. "Honest" people wouldn't do what you did, the guilt got the best of you is all. She could be flirting with guys to get back at you or it could be to build or self esteem back up after you cheated. I would just focus on making your relationship better. She's less likely to do anything if she's happy with you, just hope she isn't as "honest" as you are. You can confront and she'll probably throw your cheating escapade in your face.

[leafguy]

Let the flirting go. Its healthy in any relationship if it is harmless. Focus on her and you for the time being and work yourself back to a good point.

[Mariposa10]

Why did you cheat on her?

 

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