stormer1092 Posted August 31, 2013 Posted August 31, 2013 So its been about a month since I last seen my ex and we've started talking again very little. I'm getting really bad mixed signals from her and from what she says I can say that she doesn't know what she wants from life. Like the other day she contacted ME because she was having some family problems. The next day I seen how she was doing and shes like fine, I just ignored it. IT MAKES NO SENSE. I know she's just pushing everyone away. Then yesterday was my birthday and no happy bday or anything yet she contacted me because she found out my mom was getting married? I mean why would she care? Why would she contact me about her problems? I'm so confused and i don't know what to do? I wish I could just sit down and talk but I highly doubt she will. We never argued or anything since we started talking its all been small talk and seems to be going ok? Advice would be great. What should I do?
TrblinMN Posted August 31, 2013 Posted August 31, 2013 Sounds like she only wants to talk to you when she wants a set of ears. I assume she knows that you will always be there for her when she needs someone to listen to her. That's why this forum is so adamant about no contact!!! Don't let them have control over you. You are getting mixed feelings because their thought process seems to be erratic in that they only want to contact you when the moment strikes. They are not really thinking of your well being or what it does to you when they reach out to you.
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