gypsy25 Posted November 15, 2004 Posted November 15, 2004 To all the guys out there.....What are the ingredients of a perfect relationship? One where the setting has potential for falling in love? I mean what does it take for a guy to fall in love with a girl? Also, when you are in a relationship with a girl, how do you like the girl to act and what turns you on and turns you off? I've always heard that too much intamacy and emotions are a real turn off for guys....Is that true? Basically just describe the perfect girl and the perfect relationship. I know there isn't one answer but I'd love to hear your feedback on this one. Thanks!
unreal Posted November 16, 2004 Posted November 16, 2004 The perfect relationship from a guys point of view? Well, being a guy I will try and elaborate what I think and what I like. I would like a woman who doesn't play games, doesn't cheat, is caring and loving and someone I can spend time with and just be myself. Someone whom I can relate to on an intellectual level. I know I may sound like a softy, but I just enjoy the little things about a woman. The look in her eyes and smile whenever she says she loves me. I enjoy a girl who likes to cuddle and fall asleep in my arms at night. A girl who doesn't have to go out on the weekends partying and be drunk all the time just to have a good time. Don't get me wrong, I like to go out and party from time to time. But sometimes, you just like to share quality time together.
head/heels Posted November 17, 2004 Posted November 17, 2004 WELL SAID UNREAL!!! ill just add a little to that since it was just about perfect! a woman who is honest, never cheated on her boyfriends in the past or left them for someone else, is independent and can spend time alone and be content...., has friends that are good people, and finally one who doesnt bottle things up when problems come up! oh and someone who has a very healthy self-image as i have found out the hard way, girls who do not have a healthy self-image cannot be helped by anyone but themselves.....
pteeque Posted November 17, 2004 Posted November 17, 2004 Number 1 trust and honesty with each other. Someone easy to talk to. Good sense of humour. Little things that make me feel loved, on occasions making my sandwhiches for work and cooking me a meal when I can see shes really made an effort. Cuddling, i'm going to miss this part of my last relationship soooooooooo much, spooning her at night and having her wrapped up in me when I wake up. Generally someone who will look after me and support me and can spend time alone content..don't have to spend every waking minute with. With the self image thing my ex was very self concious and as understanding as i was and as much as I loved her for how she looked; she would never agree she was pretty or slim.
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