FitChick Posted August 31, 2013 Posted August 31, 2013 If she shows you the test "proving" she is pregnant, make her pee on another one that you give to her. Every single guy should have a stash of pregnancy tests for something like this. Despicable! 1
miss_jaclynrae Posted August 31, 2013 Posted August 31, 2013 Or if you are in a healthy relationship, you usually go together to buy some. 1
Ninjainpajamas Posted August 31, 2013 Posted August 31, 2013 (edited) This should not be news at least to men, admittedly probably something that men perpetuated in terms of behavior in the relationship at times. Not always of course, some women will just do anything to keep a guy. I find it humorous that men aren't aware of how "crazy" women can be and the lengths they will go to inflict revenge or to try and get what they want, when they're either very hurt or very determined. When circumstances and emotions permit, there's nothing "healthy" about that behavior and there aren't many limits, you better hope that woman has the restraint. For example for some women, they establish an utterly unshakeable faith and trust in their men...they think he's different, believe every word, every promise he's made...and validated in their own minds his behavior to match his words....she thinks everything is great and wonderful and the relationship is strong and progressing into that eventual blissful world of commitment..where unicorns fly and birds sing wonderfully soothing hymns around her two baby children who play in the lush grass as they frolic through the dense woods picking up fallen apples around the apple tree, him and her watching intently from a wooden bench, smiling and laughing together "hahahaaa" as butterflies circle above their heads in heart-shaped formation.... he would never do anything to wrong her or prevent that fantasy from materializing...after all, how could he not want that. Then one day as she picks up his clothes off the floor...that is when she "accidentally" searches through his pants because he was a little late from work the other night out with his "friends"...as she is doing "laundry" anyway, only to find the remnants of several condom packages eagerly opened in what seems like a night of philandering....after all, you haven't used condoms together since you've been on birth control and both been tested for STD's which assured you things were safe. The hurt, the pain, the horrid possible violation of mistrust...she tries to process it and find an excuse, but she chooses to play it nice and kisses him when he comes home after work ,clearly less affectionate as he remains aloof as typical as men can be...he is unwitting to her change in mood or just thinks its the time of month...and with a jolly and pepped attitude quickly jumps into the shower because he stopped by the "gym" before coming home from work...another clue perhaps? she must find out! she picks up his phone with trembling hands as she listens in the background of him singing their "favorite song" in the shower of when they met...that bastard, why is he in such a good mood, pretending everything is fine and singing their song while with other whores..the disgrace! She comes upon Crystal and Lawanda in his iphone, names she's never heard of under "co-workers"...she skims through the texts only stopping at flirtations and clues for sex...Lawanda has sent half-naked pics...whore....Crystal said "It was great seeing you the other night...we should do it again xoxoxo"...among other things that spark a chain reaction in her mind, the transformation begins. The pain, the violation of trust becomes rage and furry...her foreheads extends approximately two inches, horns develop, hairs extends through the pores of her recently waxed legs, the anger is like lava which fills her through the inside like a volcano about to explode..subtle yet vicious, you can almost see the level rise in her eyes like water waving in a pool...she conjures a plot. With her mind ultimately set on discovering the truth and why (because that always makes a difference of course....not), for now she wants to inflict a blow that will shock his world and reclaim his attention...she knows how fearful he would be of having children and that's "coincidentally" the first thing that pops up in her vindictive mind...she searches online on craiglist for BC test, contacts the woman and meets her in a grocery parking lot...she understands the reasoning and pain, with a smirk she hands over the positive test and they both part ways. The next day she calls him on the phone saying they really need to talk and to come home as soon as possible, but won't tell him what exactly is wrong but it's urgent...he comes home suspiciously and curious...she flushes the toilet and comes out the restroom and hands over the test just to watch the reaction on his face... And so the drama begins, what was once a seemingly "healthy" relationship has suddenly taken a turn. Edited August 31, 2013 by Ninjainpajamas
miss_jaclynrae Posted August 31, 2013 Posted August 31, 2013 (edited) This should not be news at least to men, admittedly probably something that men perpetuated in terms of behavior in the relationship at times. Not always of course, some women will just do anything to keep a guy. <snip> WTFF? That is a crazy person, as in legitimate crazy, the fact that you just wrote all that out is actually scary. Edited August 31, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator 2
Keenly Posted August 31, 2013 Posted August 31, 2013 I think a lot of it has to do with parents don't really ever tell there kids (in this case, little girls) no. They never say no so they always get their way, and it becomes about them. Every single thing is about them. Until they get into a relationship like this and her fantasies are more important than their partner, and they actually think that its morally okay and that they are justified in manipulating another person to achieve their own ends. After all, they just want to be happy right? Complete sociopaths. 1
D-Lish Posted August 31, 2013 Posted August 31, 2013 My exH knocked up another woman while we were together. Despite being furious, and it leading to our break-up- I begged him, for his own good, to get a paternity test. He refused to believe a woman could be deceptive about paternity. He went on to marry her after I left him- and have 2 more children. She lucked out big time considering how much ridiculous money he makes. His first child looks nothing like him- the other 2 look exactly like him.
Ninjainpajamas Posted August 31, 2013 Posted August 31, 2013 WTFF? That is a crazy person, as in legitimate crazy, the fact that you just wrote all that out is actually scary. That takes about as much creative power as writing a romantic comedy. Come back to LS in 10 years, that story will be quite tame after the things you've heard and seen happen to people...go ahead, ask around.
StanMusial Posted August 31, 2013 Posted August 31, 2013 WTFF? That is a crazy person, as in legitimate crazy, the fact that you just wrote all that out is actually scary. It would take me 41 years to tap that out on me phone. 1
Maleficent Posted August 31, 2013 Posted August 31, 2013 LOL And how ling do they expect keeping this little game on? Unlike lying about paternity...it gets hard after a few months to lie about being pregnant...
Author FitChick Posted September 1, 2013 Author Posted September 1, 2013 Playing that game could backfire. Murder is the leading cause of death of pregnant women according to NOW (National Organization for Women). I remember Oprah doing a show about it years ago.
Woggle Posted September 1, 2013 Posted September 1, 2013 This is one of the dumbest things I have seen. Who actually thinks this is a good idea. How about making yourself the kind of partner somebody wants to be married to if that's what you want. This is all the more reason why men should insist on paternity tests.
crederer Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 I had an ex tell me this. She said " I haven't had my period in 2 months, I think I'm pregnant" and I was like "maybe you should tell the father" Then she berated me saying how big of an ass I was to have the gall to say that to her, she hasn't had sex with anyone since me, blah blah, then I said"well we haven't had sex in about 8 months so unless you're giving birth in a few weeks I doubt I'm the father". She responded with "you're such an idiot, it doesn't work that way". She is still childless. And still stupid.
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