Zelephos Posted August 31, 2013 Posted August 31, 2013 (edited) History: 6months she broke up with me on and off Okay me and my ex we have been on and off so many times after the 6months of dating following that we have been on and off like 6 times this is the 7th I am on here for advice because I need to know how to give her the strength and faith so these doubts that sometimes cloud her don't win. I did a lot of of **** in the relationship that I ain't proud of I blamed a lot and hurt her so much. I distanced her away from me and truthfully I made her afraid of love and afraid that significant other person being the world to you. I am 17 and she is 15 she has her doubts and that's perfect because it's normal. but pretty much what happened is we have been talking for about 4 weeks now and are gonna meet up next week in the beginning she had her doubts I mean I did too. and she has feelings for me and they can grow and she can truthfully fall in love with me. but like I said she has her doubts wants this but doesn't at the same time I got her to be faithful and strong in the beginning and I told her to just let go and that I would make it up to her and never hurt her like that again but and started having her doubts like a little after but once again I reassured her. Now we are closing in and we have gotten really intimate with talking flirting dirty etc and gotten close good morning text babe and <3 whatever the case may be. She started to distance herself a little I could tell and started letting these doubts cloud her once more because this is going somewhere and she can feel it that we are almost there and the door we are about to stumble upon something happiness between us both etc but she is a afraid to move foward she believes she can't she started to say this today and having second thoughts about us moving forward together. She sees me living in the future with her having a kid with but she says she just can't right now she cares what her friends think of her and she said a lot of bad things about me to her friends talked crap said things that weren't true out of anger and she doesn't want too look stupid too her friends. but pretty much she has mixed emotions again (all those other times she second guessed and went back on her decision) but this is the farthest we have ever went and we are almost there to that second chance.I made a mistake in the past and I know what I did and I want to be able to give everything to her to make up for me and I know that this second chance would be so very different then the first time. This is my question Now I am at a loss here how do I help her gain the strength and faith in herself and us to move foward and try this second chance to be happy and overall work out? Edited August 31, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
Mariposa10 Posted August 31, 2013 Posted August 31, 2013 You guys are waaay to young to be dealing with stuff like this. Maybe try being friends first and see what happens in the future? Learn from your mistakes and don't make the same mistakes in the future.
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