Jadedbyluv Posted August 30, 2013 Posted August 30, 2013 I dated someone earlier this year for about 6 months. Things ended and I was fine. Started dated someone new not too long after that, things just ended. We were dating almost 2 months. And I'm really upset. It doesn't make sense. I can't really focus and I keep wondering if I can repair what has been broken. It wasn't something long term but I felt a real connection with this guy. I feel like an idiot for becoming so emotionally invested so fast but I truly liked him.
cb1995 Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 This happened to me earlier this year. After a little over 3 months, he ended things. I was hurt and confused as it seemed like everything between us was fine. He had some personal crisis he had to deal with, which is why he ended it. I still thought of him from time to time. Two months ago he reached out and apologized for what happened. And that was it. I haven't see him since that apology. He never gave any indication he wanted to continue to communicate with me after that meet up. I'm confused by that apology and exit. Sometimes I wish he hadn't contacted me to aologize as it made me start thinking of him again. I think the possibility of what could have been is why it feels like it hurts more. We never got to see the real person. We only experienced the good parts of them. It's just romanticizing the person. They will always be sweet. They will always be kind. You will never have had a fight. These are all positive feelings that are how we want a relationship to always be like. I've accepted this as just a brief encounter and am looking forward to meeting someone new. Doesn't mean I'm not hurt by what happened but I need to move on. Hang in there. You will find someone who will make you forget about this current guy! 1
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