LilySun Posted August 30, 2013 Posted August 30, 2013 Kindof an awkward situation. Ran into my Ex's former roommate and friend. They dont talk often now, and I dated the guy like over 2 yrs ago, but it ended badly...he dumped me and I was really hurt. He got a new Gf right away, who he is still with now. When I tried to be friends with him much later, he completely cut me out. I was always at their place and his roomate was a fun guy to be around, sometimes I even talked with him more than I did with my bf. I didnt quite find him attractive, but it was lile our personalities meshed well. Well he recognized me and basically started pursuing me right away. So we have been chatting casually here and there, and it still seems like we get alongas well as we did back then. Now we have plans to hang out next week. I will be going to his place because he is going to help me practice softball, and bbq for us. I am not uncomfortable with that since I have been at his place many times in the past. Problem 1 is I'm not sure if I am interested romantically, even though I do like hos personality alot. Prob 2 is, his daughter's mother wasn't crazy about me when I went out with my Ex. So that could be bad if this goes somewhere. Prob 3 is, it will be very awkward if we get involved and my Ex and his GF are ever around. He is a fun guy and I am enjoying the attention. Guess I will know more how I feel when we hang out. But I will feel low if I end up saying I only like him as a friend...but I am wondering if I should be messing with this at all, given the situation. Not sure what advice I am looking forhere...
darkmoon Posted August 30, 2013 Posted August 30, 2013 go and see, it might be nice, amazed you feel you have to worry about what others think, it's not like you check in on them ps, love turns up in odd places 1
CptSaveAho Posted August 30, 2013 Posted August 30, 2013 (edited) drama rama "im not romantically interested in guy but im going to use him to get back at my ex at all costs" is what i read Edited August 30, 2013 by CptSaveAho
Author LilySun Posted August 30, 2013 Author Posted August 30, 2013 drama rama "im not romantically interested in guy but im going to use him to get back at my ex at all costs" is what i read Wow, not even close. No matter how much that guy hurt me, first of all I have been over tht for a very long time. Since then I have been in love with someone else...and that is the one I am still not completely over. Secondly, I have never had a desire in my life to "get back" at anyone, because it's pointless and immature. My Ex is blissfully happy, and I have better things to think about then trying to ruin it for him. But, if he saw it exactly the way you do, then yes there might be drama, the very thing I am trying to avoid here...
Author LilySun Posted August 31, 2013 Author Posted August 31, 2013 I will clear that up, this has nothing to do with me the Ex back...I have another Ex since then, and he is the one I want back but I finally realized it will never happen. So I have been making extra effort to give guys a chance, and ran into this man in the process. Feelings for his buddy and old roomate that I dated are no longer present at all what so ever. :)I have nothing against him either because him dumping me is ancient history, he isn't a bad guy or anything..
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