jameswhite321 Posted August 30, 2013 Posted August 30, 2013 I'm 20 and my life has sputtered downwards I was rejected by a girl I really liked badly she caled me ugly made fun of me and everyone else made fun of me to. I also got called ugly alot by people on the Internet. How do I recover
madjac74 Posted August 30, 2013 Posted August 30, 2013 You are only 20!!! You have plenty of time to recover. But you need to get used to rejection because it is a part of life. Be happy with yourself and you will gain confidence and that confidence will be appealing to many people. Also you could be setting the wrong standards for the girls you are going after. Many women who you may think are beautiful are shallow and worthless. Try to find that diamond in the rough who may not be "cosmo sexy" but has qualities that attract you. 2
Onward_Upward Posted September 1, 2013 Posted September 1, 2013 (edited) James, let's cut to the chase: Send me your photo... Also, you are definitely attracting the wrong kind of so-called "friends" and acquaintances, if this is how they treat you. Genuine people do NOT judge others by their physical appearance alone... So, if someone does, then I would abandon them as quick as you can say, "shallow folks are just not worth my time" Besides, it is rare for someone to be truly "ugly"... and many people who appear lanky, dorky or even somewhat overweight when they're young, become much more adjusted and appealing as they hit their mid to late 20's. Let's call it the "ugly duckling" syndrome. I know it's a cliché too, but it is a fact that beauty - true beauty - is something which comes from within. It is that indefinable quality we radiate when we're around other people: It is about maintaining a good sense of self worth and an inner confidence, which naturally comes about when we respect ourselves. Being deemed "worthy" by others becomes much easier, when we consider ourselves "worthwhile" to begin with Edited September 1, 2013 by Onward_Upward
daisylane Posted September 1, 2013 Posted September 1, 2013 So sorry to hear you went through that. I know it's easier said than done but try not to let other people's comments about your looks get you down. You don't want to be friends with people who only care about superficial things such as looks, money or power. I would focus on your positive aspects and look for people who appreciate you for who you are. You are still very young and it might take a while until you find people who are worth your time but don't give up! there are lots of genuine people out there
lianxiaofeng Posted September 3, 2013 Posted September 3, 2013 Or a girl will be so obviously crazy about him. Never happened to me.
Shaun-Dro Posted September 3, 2013 Posted September 3, 2013 I'm 20 and my life has sputtered downwards I was rejected by a girl I really liked badly she caled me ugly made fun of me and everyone else made fun of me to. I also got called ugly alot by people on the Internet. How do I recover You sound like NYC-Bigkat. Maybe you guys should form a brotherly pact.
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