TheGiver Posted August 30, 2013 Posted August 30, 2013 I've been in a relationship with what I can only describe as my first true love for the past year. She was an international student who was staying at my home, I'm 19 and attending university second year, and she's a year younger. Being under the same roof, the relationship took off quite fast, looking back at it, perhaps a little TOO fast. at around the 1 month mark we started to get intimate, and she was my first everything, though i was not her first boyfriend, i was the first to become so intimate with her. We were happy, we did everything together, made plans for the future, and all that. Then summer vacation came, she went back to her home country to visit her family and friends... The problem begins here, in the first month, whenever i message her i would end the conversation with a 'i love you,' and she'd reply 'i love you too.' then those started to disappear, i felt she grew more distant from me, and when the time came for her to come back to Canada, 4 days ago... i had planned all sorts of things and surprises for her, but to MY surprise, she broke up with me. She told me everything, an old friend had met up with her and expressed his feelings, and she was snatched away, she even slept with him 1 time. To me, I wanted to do things that'd land me in prison for life, and i cried through the night, unable to sleep, unable to do anything. these past few days has been torture, I've already decided that i'm going to let her go, as she broke my trust with her cheating, and IF i take her back i'll never look at her the same way again. Letting go is a different challenge however, since she's still staying at my home, i see her everyday, and hear her voice everyday. And whenever i do, i'm reminded of the ordeal she put me through. any advice would be appreciated. Addendum: It is not my decision to let her stay at my home or not, our parents are good friends, and currently i'm not at the position to move into my own place.
Philosoraptor Posted September 3, 2013 Posted September 3, 2013 I feel for your situation. You need to speak to your parents about this and if they know the situation, they should stick by their son. Until then, do you have any friends or family you can stay with until she's gone? 1
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