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I'll just post a timeline of how I'm feeling

 

After 5months of NC(she left me for another man)

 

3Weeks AGO - I was feeling good I was thinking about her but she was totally out of my life.

 

2Weeks AGO - she decides to be friendly with me , & I the fool fall for her breadcrumbs , we flirt for 1 weeks

 

1week AGO - she gives me her MMcard to stores songs on her phone (again I the fool takes it & store songs on her phone next thing I saw her pics)

 

3Days ago - after seen her pics I wanted to ask her to go with me to my matric ball(partner)

 

Today - my mission was to talk with her during break , so I went to her first thing in the morning (I talked to her , we flirted as usual , I told her I wanna c her during break its important she said "OK") during break I think she was high (space muffins) she didn't even bother about me

 

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Now I know NC has helped me before but I wanna go with her to my matric ball that's the only reason as to why I'm talking to her & its seriously messing me up she's on my mind 24/7 again & exams are next week

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I wanna go with her to my matric ball that's the only reason as to why I'm talking to her & its seriously messing me up she's on my mind 24/7 again & exams are next week

 

She has a boyfriend. Stop the madness. It's getting ridicilous.

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If you fail your exams because ur mind is on her, you will regret it for the rest of your life.

 

 

 

 

BarkyBarky

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This is also one of the concerns I'm having now. School starts next week and I'm still thinking about this freaking girl. I need to immerse myself in my studies just as I did last semester and shoot for nothing less than an A as I've done in the past. I know how difficult it can be to focus while you have someone on your mind, trust me I know. What I used to do was go to the library and study for hours. There were times when I had to read the same paragraph three times just to get it, that's how distracted I was but it is manageable nonetheless.

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She has a boyfriend. Stop the madness. It's getting ridicilous.

 

Its just a dance that's lasts two hours none more

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Its just a dance that's lasts two hours none more

 

It doesn't matter if it's two minutes or two hours. She has a boyfriend. She has no interest in getting back with you. She flirts to get attention.

 

Your studies are failing. Concentrate on your education and have some sense and self-control. More than anything, have dignity. If anything women like her love toying with doormats like you.

 

I hate to be harsh but there is nothing attractive about your behavior. I said it before. You're acting like a lap dog.

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This is also one of the concerns I'm having now. School starts next week and I'm still thinking about this freaking girl. I need to immerse myself in my studies just as I did last semester and shoot for nothing less than an A as I've done in the past. I know how difficult it can be to focus while you have someone on your mind, trust me I know. What I used to do was go to the library and study for hours. There were times when I had to read the same paragraph three times just to get it, that's how distracted I was but it is manageable nonetheless.

 

Lol we on the same rollerCoster

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It doesn't matter if it's two minutes or two hours. She has a boyfriend. She has no interest in getting back with you. She flirts to get attention.

 

Your studies are failing. Concentrate on your education and have some sense and self-control. More than anything, have dignity. If anything women like her love toying with doormats like you.

 

I hate to be harsh but there is nothing attractive about your behavior. I said it before. You're acting like a lap dog.

 

Okay , I actually understand what u saying about "lap dog" but I've been a "lap dog" for 2weeks now even if I go full-strick-NC I would still be a "lap dog"

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Okay , I actually understand what u saying about "lap dog" but I've been a "lap dog" for 2weeks now even if I go full-strick-NC I would still be a "lap dog"

 

I can't understand your logic.

 

When you go NC, you choose your dignity and self-respect. You choose self-preservation, to protect yourself and to prioritize your healing and emotional health. That means you choose to stop engaging in a situation whereby you STOP allowing someone to keep using you as a lap dog because you know you deserve better and that you will not settle for anything less than that.

 

You can choose to be a lap dog if you want to, which you certainly seem adamant on doing or you can choose to have the courage to be man, accept that she is with another and focus on your education and moving on from her.

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I can't understand your logic.

 

When you go NC, you choose your dignity and self-respect. You choose self-preservation, to protect yourself and to prioritize your healing and emotional health. That means you choose to stop engaging in a situation whereby you STOP allowing someone to keep using you as a lap dog because you know you deserve better and that you will not settle for anything less than that.

 

You can choose to be a lap dog if you want to, which you certainly seem adamant on doing or you can choose to have the courage to be man, accept that she is with another and focus on your education and moving on from her.

 

Okay I don't wanna be a leap dog , as I said I just want her to be my partner

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I'm going to ask you a very simple question.

 

Do you want to continue the pain and hurt.

 

Or

 

Do you want to put a end to it, regrow your short and curlies and be a man again?

 

 

 

 

 

Barky

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Dude, seriously? You're screwing up your future for a girl that doesn't want a future with you! Screw her and the ball. Crack the books! PASS THOSE EXAMS!!!!

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Okay I don't wanna be a leap dog , as I said I just want her to be my partner

 

She doesn't want to be your partner. She already has one. And it takes two to be PARTNERS. Not one.

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