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This man from my job ask me out on Sunday via text, and now it's been 4 days no text or called from him.

 

Monday I did text him, we spoke for a little bit, and that was all.

 

I don't want to personally be blowing up his phone.... I mean, I do truly like him I don't want to invade his personal space, or be needy.

 

I work at supermarket. He's a bagger, and I am a cashier. Cashiers will always get more hours at my store vs a bagger at the end of the month. So, I haven't seen him because no lied they will give a bagger only ONE day to work.

 

I'm confused... Should I have been throwing the text all week?

Usually its always equal thing, he throws a text, or I do, sometimes we called each other. I thought we was on the "same level" of liking each other. :[

 

By Saturday I will text him, and say, "Sooo, are you on for tonight?"

 

He sorta reminds me of my best friend, if we make plans that night, and if i don't text him. HE WILL NOT TEXT ME TO HANG OUT if we do have plans. He will WAIT for me to text him.If I do not we won't hang out... >.> I dunno...

 

Is there like any special rules when a man asked you out how you should behave for that whole week? Should I even bother to throw him a text by Saturday to see what's going on?

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Probably he's saving all that talking in person. Why would he ask you out if he wasnt interested. Did he ask you out on a date? Or just to hang out?

 

Don't sweat it, don't even text him on the day off. Just be ready, on the time you guys arranged, then be ready to hear from him.

 

No mix signals in my book.

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Probably he's saving all that talking in person. Why would he ask you out if he wasnt interested. Did he ask you out on a date? Or just to hang out?

 

Don't sweat it, don't even text him on the day off. Just be ready, on the time you guys arranged, then be ready to hear from him.

 

No mix signals in my book.

 

I assumed it was a date because of all the flirting, and he asked me if i wanting to do anything we can do it... and he will paid. When a man say

"paid" to me that's a date...

 

All right... will do! ^___^

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Wait, so you have a date set for Saturday?

 

If you don't hear from him on Saturday you could always do the "so, what time we meeting"/ "text me when you leave to pick me up" or somehow clarify something about the meetup.

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