3480 Posted August 30, 2013 Posted August 30, 2013 We have been together for almost 10 years with many ups and downs including abortion, infidelity with him giving me STI (cured now!) and being of different religions. I had thought we moved past that when he proposed last year. Despite my parents vehement objections, I told them I would marry him and convert into his religion. 6 months ago, his dad yelled at me and now is opposing the marraige. He does not seem to be standing up to his dad instead is asking me to mend the bridges with his dad and ask for forgiveness. I don't know how much more I can take and how much more hoops I need to jump through. I feel that all this are just excuses not to marry me and right now I'm not sure I want to.
Author 3480 Posted August 30, 2013 Author Posted August 30, 2013 And to add; I'm 33 he is 36. I don't know if I would be able to move on after this if I leave him. We have different interests now, I love adventure travel and he doesn't so I have to go on holidays by myself. I am not sure if this is the future I want
barky2 Posted August 30, 2013 Posted August 30, 2013 I was also with my (ex) for 10 years...so many ups and downs. A ectopic pregnancy and 6 miscarriages. These things weigh heavily on a relationship. But our love fought threw all of it. Her parents disliked me. She never batted a eye at that fact...she couldn't care less. See what I'm getting at? Just because his dad doesn't like you or yelled at you..if you love him enough, ull he with him. There was cheating in my relationship too. I did it first, she got retribution We got over it. Got back together and couldn't be happier You need to dig deep and find out if you love him enough to continue. This one is up to you, not us Ls members Barky
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