mrbrightside14 Posted August 30, 2013 Posted August 30, 2013 I've been going on dates with this one girl for about two months now. 2 real dates, hangouts and a cuddling session in between, and 3rd date next week. Till this afternoon I thought there was pretty strong attraction between us two. She always tells me that I look handsome, and we flirt almost everyday via texts and facebook messages. Now, I'm starting to wonder where things are going... The girl told me this morning she received some really bad news and felt really depressed because of it. "I'm pretty depressed and I think I will be for a while. And so, I just would like to keep things more on a friend basis until I get through this." I saw her this afternoon and asked her what was really going on. Her ex-boyfriend, one who supposedly "helped her get through the toughest times of her life" but broke up with about a year ago, is headed to state prison because of statutory rape (the girl in question supposedly lied about her age the entire time). It is a sad story, and it's not easy for me to see her in pain. At the same time, I am troubled by this. I don't know why exactly, but I just am... We still held hands and kissed, so I'm assuming she still finds me attractive. But I think I need to find out if she's friend-zoning me or if she still wants to date me. I think I am gonna ask her this question next time I see her because I feel bothered. Legitimate thing to ask?
jacg89 Posted August 30, 2013 Posted August 30, 2013 You have the right to know where you stand... I would definetly ask my partner/friend what was going on with whatever we had going on if something like that had happened.. In the long run, time will really tell what is going on. She told you how she felt, now its your turn. Wishing you luck!
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