IamLegend Posted August 30, 2013 Posted August 30, 2013 I will be moving to Vegas in the next few days to start fresh financially and emotionally. My girlfriend broke up with me about a year ago and i have been chasing her ever since. It's been a very heartbreaking experience for me. I just realized it's been a year since we split 2 days ago becuase time was irrelevant to me. I have been so focused on winning her back that i forgot to take care of myself in th eprocess. We were talking on the phone the other night and she said some pretty cruel things. The type of things you say to someone that just digusts you. That's when i had an epiphany to move to Vegas. This woman that i devoted so much time and energy into is just not in love with me anymore. I need to accept it and move the hell on because it's holding me back in life. She doesn't respect me at all and alot of it is my fault. Women only want a man to chase them if there interested otherwise you just look like a clingy boy. Well...I'm tired of being her doormat. I am going to cut her out of my life completely. I will not answer her phone calls , text, or emails. And i'm serious I am moving to Vegas to get finacially secure and to start a new life. I barely have much money but my cousin is allowing me to stay with him for the time being untill i find a stable source of income. So i am stepping out on faith. I don't have much to loose seeing that i'm not doing much better in California. I feel like this is what i need to get myself to the point i deserve to be at. I feel like it will motivate me to get my life together as a man should. Now don't get me wrong i am not poor or struggling out here but i can be doing sooooo much more. My question is. What do i do if she calls ? What do i do about social media ? What can i do to occupy my time so that i don't accidently call her ? What do you think i need to know before i go into this because it's probably the biggest decision i have ever made in my entire life.
Chi townD Posted August 30, 2013 Posted August 30, 2013 My question is. What do i do if she calls ? Ignore it What do i do about social media ? Block her What can i do to occupy my time so that i don't accidently call her? Stay busy!
mtnbiker3000 Posted August 30, 2013 Posted August 30, 2013 A fresh start might be just what you need. I am counting the days until I can move as well. Hate where I live now as I moved here with my ex for her new job. I never wanted to live here and I can't stand it... But, as another poster mentioned, you want to be sure, as you may end up in a worse situation and then really feel bad about your life Have you thought about places other than Vegas? I've heard the same about the economy and crime there...
Jangles524 Posted August 30, 2013 Posted August 30, 2013 I will be moving to Vegas in the next few days to start fresh financially and emotionally. My girlfriend broke up with me about a year ago and i have been chasing her ever since. It's been a very heartbreaking experience for me. I just realized it's been a year since we split 2 days ago becuase time was irrelevant to me. I have been so focused on winning her back that i forgot to take care of myself in th eprocess. We were talking on the phone the other night and she said some pretty cruel things. The type of things you say to someone that just digusts you. That's when i had an epiphany to move to Vegas. This woman that i devoted so much time and energy into is just not in love with me anymore. I need to accept it and move the hell on because it's holding me back in life. She doesn't respect me at all and alot of it is my fault. Women only want a man to chase them if there interested otherwise you just look like a clingy boy. Well...I'm tired of being her doormat. I am going to cut her out of my life completely. I will not answer her phone calls , text, or emails. And i'm serious I am moving to Vegas to get finacially secure and to start a new life. I barely have much money but my cousin is allowing me to stay with him for the time being untill i find a stable source of income. So i am stepping out on faith. I don't have much to loose seeing that i'm not doing much better in California. I feel like this is what i need to get myself to the point i deserve to be at. I feel like it will motivate me to get my life together as a man should. Now don't get me wrong i am not poor or struggling out here but i can be doing sooooo much more. My question is. What do i do if she calls ? What do i do about social media ? What can i do to occupy my time so that i don't accidently call her ? What do you think i need to know before i go into this because it's probably the biggest decision i have ever made in my entire life. I am in the same type of situation as you. She doesn't love me anymore. Although, I envy you. To drop it all and start somewhere new and exciting? If I could have it any way, I'd drop it all and start over in Colorado. Best of luck to you man. Your journey is yours alone, now. You're the only one who can dictate what you become from here. You'll do alright without her. Don't prove her wrong, Prove yourself right. 2
Jangles524 Posted August 30, 2013 Posted August 30, 2013 Have you thought about places other than Vegas? I've heard the same about the economy and crime there... Based on him saying he doesn't have much $ to speak of, I wager Vegas is the destination because his cousin is letting him bunk up while he gets on his feet.
Big Sky Posted August 30, 2013 Posted August 30, 2013 im doing something similar. moving from DC to nyc in a couple weeks to start anew.
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