UndercoverLover62 Posted August 29, 2013 Posted August 29, 2013 How do you know if you indeed found the one you want to spend the rest of your life with?
Clockwork Posted August 29, 2013 Posted August 29, 2013 I knew almost instantly. Two weeks into us dating I asked her to be exclusive with me to which she responded: "I thought we already were." I married her 18 months after I met her. That's how you know. If you say to yourself "Well it is only a piece of paper" then you've answered your own question. She isn't worth it (or you aren't) to call her your wife. You'll know immediately. I told my wife about 3 weeks in that I could see us being together for a long, long time. It just felt right.
sunshinegirl Posted August 30, 2013 Posted August 30, 2013 As they say, I just knew. I was secretly writing my wedding invitation list 2 weeks after we started dating. We got married less than a year later. 1
Silly_Girl Posted August 30, 2013 Posted August 30, 2013 It was a thunderbolt for him. He reckons the day we met he knew it was 'big'. The man (36 yrs old) who had never taken a girl to meet his mum before told her all about this great girl and great first date. As I got to know him I realised how huge that was for him. For me it was much slower, until one day I realised I couldn't see any form of future for myself, whatsoever, other than marrying him and spending the rest of my life with him. Imagining anything else was just 'weird'.
miss_jaclynrae Posted August 30, 2013 Posted August 30, 2013 With my ex husband, I swear, after two weeks together I was already practicing my signature with my last name. It didn't work out, but I really think if he hadn't of suffered from PTSD we would probably still be together. With the mister now, I KNOW he is the one I want to spend the rest of my life with. It may or may not happen, but I know that is what I want. I can't imagine being with anyone else.
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