Busy Relationship

[SodaStrean]

So me and my girl are coming up to nearly a year, its been amazing, we love every second of being with eachother, i make her laugh, the sex is GREAT and there is no question of lack of interest on either side.

 

Now about 2 months ago she started her own videography business with her sister, now her schedule is HECTIC, i mean half of the shoots she goes to shes barely sorted her hair and make up, she's getting her job done, and shes getting it done well and seeing success from an early stage, now the problem is that this has obviously come between us slightly, not in a negative way, im proud of her, she is just so rushed off her feet atm that i havent seen her for three weeks (we dont live together).

 

As you can imagine this has been hard for me considering that we used to spend every other night together, when i ask for her to take a few hours a week out to see me she says she doesn't know if she can which is understandable due to the nature of her business and the amount of time and energy she is putting in, im a fair and understandable person but obviously atm it feels a bit sh*tty.

 

I mean we text a few times a day and occasionally speak on the phone and its not like i'm not busy i work alot of hours and run my own music website so i do have things to be getting on with which i do, i feel its moreso the principal that i dont see her than anything, i understand that this will take time and a business is not easy to start from the ground up, we've discussed this a few times and i was being selfish saying you need to give me x amount of time in a week and she said she couldnt promise and never knows when she is going to be free next, and i told her that i needed to give her space and left her to it, later that night she text me to say she doesnt wanna be hurt in this or to have me hurt, she said if i dont understand then..she understands, basically gave me an opportunity to leave if i couldnt handle it but put it across in a way that said she didnt want that.

 

Obviously i love this girl to have gone this far with it all, she is literally the woman i want to settle down with, i've been with enough women to know this ones a keeper, i've decided i'm gonna stick it out, its difficult, but then if its never difficult then i guess you never know if its real love.

 

The problem is i don't know when she is going to be free, because she doesn't, pressuring her for time doesn't work it does the opposite, i understand how things work and read situations well so i wont be going down that route again.

 

Now with her being so busy, and the uncertainty of her schedule, how would you guys suggest me moving the relationship forward while we aren't getting to see eachother very much at all?, getting rid of her is NOT an option, i'd be stupid to lose someone with so much drive and passion for something she loves, that is beautiful and makes me happier than anyone ever has.

 

I guess i have to play it like its a long distance relationship for the meantime, something im not familiar with, hoping you guys could help me out here

 

and MY GOD do i feel better for typing that up and getting it out!!

[Brunettie]

Why don't you go to her house after she gets off work?

Maybe bring dinner.