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ok my ex and i have been broken up for a little over three months now. We talk every so often and try to keep things casual. We went out for 2 and a half years. She dumped me and went out with a 22 year old three weeks after we broke up. She is 18 i am 19. So about 2 weeks ago i came in to her work to get a coffee and after shesees me she makes it for me and then proceeds to sit down with me and talk for like 20 minutes. We discuss all the good times we had and she says how i seem to have changed so much since we broke up "but for the better". She then tells me that if she and her bf were not together she would try things with me again in a heartbeat. What do i make of this? I have moved on but has she? I told her i miss her bieng my girl and she told me she does too but obviously not enough to dump her 2 montyh old guy for me so what do i make of this?

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but i say dont say anymore about you missing her or what ever...let her think of that from now on or she will always know you are on the backburner...this new thing with the guy will not last and if it does, who cares?

 

Would you really want someone who could dump a person and go out with another so quickly?

 

i am in your situation only NC has allowed me to move on and i havent spoken to her in over 40 days and if it is up to me i wont...she did contact my friend to check up on me but that was it and i never called back!

 

She knows she has lost me and that is just what she has done..

 

your girl will string you along bc if she wanted you or thought she was losing you to another girl, she would leave this guy in a heartbeat....so i wouldnt put too much stock in the **** she says....it is all BS until she acts on it...

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thanks for the reply yea even though i would like to be with her again deep down i know it just cant be. But as of tonight i called her to say hi and what not and out of nowhere she tells me she broke up with her bf. Then she told me the reason was that they didnt see each other enough. I guess i am worried that she is now going to try and mess with my head and seeing we are talking and are chill i am worried that it will ruin what i feel is a slow starting friendship. i am over bieng with her for the most part i mean i still deep down want her but i am also not going to lower myself like that i just am worried about what she might try to do and how i should handle it but more importantly what might she do that would show that she truly cares? i just know somethings gonna happen and i wanna be ready for it. :(

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