TranslucentThoughts Posted November 14, 2004 Posted November 14, 2004 I just found out my ex already likes someone else. His sister told me that he went rock climbing with her and a few of his guy friends this weekend. Damn... that stung. It hasn't even been 2 months. It's just... it's more hurt all over again. I just want it to stop. I couldn't have meant that much to him if already he's seeing someone else. This...Sucks. I don't want to have to see them together at school... I can't deal with this. It hurts so bad.... What do I do? How do I deal with this? Please help.
krbshappy71 Posted November 14, 2004 Posted November 14, 2004 eh, just because he's going out already doesn't mean your relationship didn't mean anything. It may be his way of coping, getting his esteem back up from the break up, moving on. It doesn't mean he isn't hurting. Most relationships that are jumped into right after a break up don't last anyhow so I'm not sure why you are jealous he will get hurt AGAIN faster than you will. hang in there.
Cupcake Posted November 14, 2004 Posted November 14, 2004 I hope Krbshappy71 is right. I broke up with my ex after 1 year of dating. He met someone else 1 week before he and I broke up. When I found out about her, I dumped him. They started dating seriously 5 days after he and I broke up. They got engaged 2 months later. He bought her a $4000 diamond ring. Now they are planning this extravegant wedding to take place next summer, and they haven't known each other for 6 months yet. He and I talked about getting married, but we never took it that far. We were waiting for things like finances to be in line so that we would have a stable family life. I thought it was realistic. But then this female came a long, and it was a different story. He blames me by saying that if I never would have dumped him, he and I would still be together and I would have the ring, and the big wedding. What a bummer !!
head/heels Posted November 14, 2004 Posted November 14, 2004 he is just saying that...dont worry that wedding will not go thru and if it does it will end with him cheating on her or vice versa...i mean if he tries to blame you for dumping him bc he was talking to this girl (no matter how small it was then-since he did end up going out with her right after) and therefore obviously had feeligns for her, he is not for you...he is never going to be happy if he can say that you would have the ring! How disrespectful to his new fiance! he is an a**h*** and will not be happy with her or with anyone...he seems to be very immature if he tells you that you missed out and he was the one looking elsewhere! glad you didnt marry him!!!!poor girl doesnt know what she is getting! who would ever want someone who would leave their gf or bf for them? isnt that arrogant to think that they left someone for them and that it wont happen to them since they are such a great catch? uggg! i will never go out with anyone who breaks up with their SO for me.....how low is that? why would i want someone with that kind of heart?
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