Dimension7 Posted August 29, 2013 Posted August 29, 2013 I met this girl exactly one month ago. Since then, we've seen each other multiple times, ending up kissing and having sex. From the day one, I've been emotionally attracted to her. We have similar personalities, we're both very intense people. I was ready for a "serious" relationship, but, after the first time we had sex, she told me she had just broke up with her last boyfriend precisely when she met me. She added she wasn't ready for anything serious, but that was loving to get to know me and was somehow attracted to me. We keep meeting and having wonderful sex - at least, we are both sure that we are sex soulmates. Even our favourite positions are the same and the thing is pretty wild and ferocious. She wants to keep doing this but also mentioned that we are free to see other people. The problem is that we are also very territorial. She got jealous about a girl posting on my facebook wall and I also got jealous about her seeing a guy. Adding to this, we share the same social circle and it's not easy to keep this thing hidden from everybody and pretending we're just simple friends. If it was a "**** buddy" thing, it would not mess with my mind. But there is something more between us, a giant elephant in the room. It's not easy to handle, There is so much more sexual tension and the emotions are undeniable. I'm not the only one who has an emotional link, she has it too, I can sense it. There are hundreds of occasions when we start imagining what if we were boyfriend/girlfriend. I love the sex and I enjoy her company. We spend half a day together every time we meet - about 2/3 times a week. But the thing is pretty confusing and is messing with my nerves.
Eternal Sunshine Posted August 29, 2013 Posted August 29, 2013 Women like companionship and sex, doesn't mean that there is more than that. Seems like you have developed feelings, which is really bad news for you. Don't read to much into her being territorial, so am I but it doesn't mean I am in love with someone. I would personally tell her how you feel and then move on if she doesn't feel the same. For your own emotional health, don't stay in relationships/friendships/fbuddies/whatever if they are causing you a lot of confusion and stress.
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