Dumped85 Posted August 29, 2013 Posted August 29, 2013 Myself being a dumpee who misses my ex still after almost 3 months of her leaving, is among most of you on here trying to get on with the loss just kinda thought of something. That once we heal there will be a cycle of new people we could potentially meet and click with who was either dumped or dumpee. I guess its just a positive in a whole bunch of negative feelings ive had.
L1ght Posted August 29, 2013 Posted August 29, 2013 Ah! This could turn out to be a really good thread if we all post the positive things about not having our ex's in our lives anymore. Some of the positives for me that come to mind are: *OMG her taste in music was absolutely terrible, I cringe at the thought of her sending me songs that she loved and I hated.....I tried my best not to criticise her choices but to be honest half the time I couldn't help but be honest about how I really felt about it. Crap. *Not having to travel to a country in the middle east where the laws and way of life are so repulsive to me that if I actually had to go there once her Visa ran out I just might have to kill myself. *Not having to deal with the uncertainty about if she was able to conceive or not due to a few health issues she was having. *Not having to deal with the ever changeable and unpredictable nature of her mood while I watch her scoff down tablets that she used to battle her depression and then get blamed for not being understanding enough when my patience is tested to the limit. There's tons more but I guess that will do for now.
Author Dumped85 Posted August 29, 2013 Author Posted August 29, 2013 Sounds like a good idea to keep the thread going,
Heartbroken Eagle Posted August 29, 2013 Posted August 29, 2013 Not having to fake my joy everytime I had to see or speak to her mother. Not having to be walking on eggshells during her 'Time of the month' Why was hers worse than any other woman on earth??? Not having to listen to her drivel everytime she got drunk... Not having to deal with her insecurities and spending most of my life reassuring her... Her excessive farting!!! Christ, I really could go on here... 2
L1ght Posted August 29, 2013 Posted August 29, 2013 (edited) Not having to fake my joy everytime I had to see or speak to her mother. Not having to be walking on eggshells during her 'Time of the month' Why was hers worse than any other woman on earth??? Not having to listen to her drivel everytime she got drunk... Not having to deal with her insecurities and spending most of my life reassuring her... Her excessive farting!!! Christ, I really could go on here... A woman's time of the month is just an excuse for them to test our patience to the limit to see how much they can get away with and they milk it for everything its worth. Games.....smiling one minute, sour faced and giving you the stink eye the next. Fun! Edited August 29, 2013 by L1ght 1
unexpectedlyhere Posted August 29, 2013 Posted August 29, 2013 Actually you'd better get used to believing the "Time of the month" is real. So many women actually don't reach inner peace and calm until menopause (after the initial change).
Jenny1234 Posted August 29, 2013 Posted August 29, 2013 Where do I even begin ...... His depressing music His lack of motivation His ability to sleep until 2pm every weekend day His extreme addiction to watching sports Him only showering once on weekends His scary driving His communicate issues His iPhone being locked His obsession with his friends who for the record are all married and have lives His lack of skill to get a new job Him moving in with a random dude now just to have a new friend to go get drunk with His wardrobe...same outfit over and over in a million colors His obsession with ice tea...gallons of it Only eating one meal a day Acting like I lived on the other side of the planet...9 miles Pretending like his life was just grand to his parents on the phone and barely mentioning me when they asked over and over how I was Talking in his sleep Wow I could go on all day! 2
redkangaroo Posted August 30, 2013 Posted August 30, 2013 For me it's total freedom, that I always valued. I do what I want, without thinking how it would be rated. I'm not talking about daily things, but relatively long projects in life. Often it was rated illogically and unpredictably. The price I pay for that is been alone for a while. I am ready for that. 1
Cbbwink Posted August 31, 2013 Posted August 31, 2013 I say make a list of crap you put up with and you will see the positives no more fishing for compliments No more of her constant pot smoking No more wining of how hard it is to be her No more random mood swings No more constant attention No more her always trying to be right Me finally able to do what I want when I want + I bought my self a motorcycle ^_^
Omei Posted September 1, 2013 Posted September 1, 2013 My list is too long, im getting sleepy just thinking about it. I think about the good more than the bad ill just say im not as sad as I was, im much happier on my own.
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