Space_oddity1989 Posted August 29, 2013 Posted August 29, 2013 My ex whom I was with for two years recently started talking again. We didn't have any contact for about 2 months. She recently started working where I work at. For the past two weeks, things have been great. She's brought me breakfast and lunch to work. We pretty much talk all day via text and over the phone. We've also hung out a few times outside of work. I know it's hard because she's a grad student and the fact that she takes time out of her hectic schedule to hang out with me means a lot. Just a few days ago we hung out and I might have buried myself a hole. I asked her where we stood. She said she felt it was under the impression of being friends and so that work wouldn't be awkward. Last time I checked, I never treated any of my friends like that. We had a long discussion. She said she missed me and hasn't stopped caring. Things I did in the past and during the break up came up. She said she can't go back to us because she knows I'll hurt her again. I never cheated, just to clarify that. But during a break we had, I did start to hang out with an ex and she wasn't too pleased about that. Was the relationship good? Yes. Was it also bad? At times. When she told me all those things it hurt, because she's the last person I ever wanted to hurt. She drove off crying and I drove off mad at myself. We haven't spoken since and I am dreading going back to work. I've been out because of a sprained ankle which she offered to take me to the doctor a few days prior to this incident. What can I do? I know trust isn't something that happens over a few days.
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