TranslucentThoughts Posted November 13, 2004 Posted November 13, 2004 My ex and I go to the same high school. We've been broken up for about 2 months now and I'm still not over him. It's really hard to see him every day. I changed lockers because it was right beside his and I try not to think how much I love and miss him. We have a class together and he sits beside me. For the past week he wouldn't talk to me. I had no idea why... but for the past few days he's actually been semi-friendly. I hate the way this is going though...it makes me feel even worse. He broke up with me because he said he wasn't "in love" with me anymore... but that he still loved me a lot and really cared about me. Then... what is he doing? He had said when we first broke up that it was so hard for him... even though it was his decision. We had a good relationship. We loved eachother so much... and I know he loved me. We were really close and we both talked about being together for a long time. His change of heart seemed to come out of nowhere. I want to get over him.. I am trying... but, I can't just fall out of love with him. I want to talk to him... I feel like I have all these things I need to say... he acts as if he doesn't care anymore... like he's happy to be rid of me... I don't know... I wish I knew how he was feeling right now. I wish I knew if he missed me... if he still thinks about me. Is there any way I can find these things out? Do you think he'll ever change his mind... realize he really is in love with me? What will it take... time, seeing other people...? what? I miss him so much... and I hate feeling like nothing to him.
Jilly10340 Posted November 15, 2004 Posted November 15, 2004 I know it's really hard right now, I just got through a break up recently. You can't just sit around and think all these things, sometimes to be strong you have to act strong even if it's pretending to be strong. What helped me with my breakup is the thought that I deserve someone who will love me and not breakup with me. If you gave him all you had, and he rejected you, then he's really not worth your time. Do you want to waste your time on someone who won't return your love and affection. I know my ex loved me and I loved him too, he was the first person I've ever loved, but by keeping these things in mind, I was able to move on and now I feel so much better. I know there's someone out there for me, I just have to find him. If this guy says that he loves you but isn't "in love" with you, then take his word for it and go out and find someone who loves you and is "in love" with you.
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