Lost, love

[Sapphire910]

I've been married for 10 yrs my H an I hadn't had sex in 2 1/2 years. I didn't think he would ever have sex wit me again. I would beg him for months at a time to please tell me what is wrong with me? He would say nothing and walk out the door... I would b so hurt that I would cry endlessly nights alone. One day A friend that I knew from my work would come to see me all the time. We would just chat it up, he was married too. One day he sent me flower and got up the nerve to ask me to lunch. From that day on we talked all the time. After about 2 months we decided to meet at an hotel. After that our love affair was mind blowing. Well after 2 years my husband found out and he never said a word. He just kept that info to himself. My bf left his wife and I need not tell you what happened after this? He started to pressure me to be with him. I wanted to but my H had so much more to offer me, we had builded so much together I could imagine starting over. Then my bf told me that I was giving him enough time. I gave him the "get over urself" story. But all along he had someone else. I told him get rid of that girl,NOW!!! And he did for a while I found out that he was seeing her again. And I cut him off!!!! No contact at all. He calls my work but I never come to the phone... Is he crazy or am I? Just asking????????

 

But still in love....

[Misfortune]

You're married, cheating for years instead of leaving, cake eating, think it's ok because your husband knows, crying over affair partner, using your husband because you're afraid to be a big girl, you have your husband but don't want affair partner to have someone else and you want advice on how to continue your affair? Did I get that right? Shouldn't this be in the ow/om forum?

[Bryanp]

How do you know your husband found out if he never said a word?

[Realist3]

Sure sounds like you're crazy.

 

I would have to second this. You sound a good bit crazy.

[AlwaysGrowing]

Is he crazy or am I?

 

Crazy attracts crazy.