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I got together with a man who moved out of his wife's house when we got together. He said he hadn't loved her for years, and that he moved out so he could be with me. He said I was the love of his life, and that we were going to get married and have children.

 

I KNOW I shouldn't have done it. Of course. Hindsight is 20/20.

 

Of course, after several months, he said he changed his mind and he couldn't take the stress, and he was going to reconcile with her.

 

I totally got tossed to the curb. I did fall in love with this man, and I miss him terribly.

 

I texted him once asking for my key back but besides that it's been 48 hours of NC. It's hard. I look obsessively at my phone and email. The only thing that's keeping me from contacting him is knowing he's back in her house and he probably won't leave again. I wish I was so strong in knowing that he doesn't deserve me, but I"m not!

 

So, my two questions are-- how do I get stronger? How do I stop caring? And what do I do in those horrible moments when I want to contact him SO BADLY?

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Change your locks, block him from your phone and facebook and move on. He does not love you, and never did.

 

Get counseling if you need it. You will see that life has a lot more to offer than a loser like him.

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Never did? BEcause he's not capable? It felt and seemed like he did. That's what's so weird. I'm normally kind of skeptical. But I took a chance and went with this. I believed he loved me. I FELT it. And I got so burned.

 

(I did get the key back so no need to change the locks, and did the FB deletions, etc.)

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