MissingHerBad Posted November 13, 2004 Posted November 13, 2004 I hope this is the right thing but this weekend is my ex-girlfriends bday. I will not be contacting her. I sent a card it will be there on Monday. I still care about her so much and the other day she was talking about how good things were and how much fun we had. She said that it was funny how much good you remember once the bad has faded. We've been broken up now for about 1 1/2 months. It has truly broken my heart. I keep having like weird attacks where I freak out and then call her and make a fool of myself. Sometimes she'll answers, when shes with her friends she wont. She doesnt really call me or email anything anymore. Its over I guess...I just thought there was something more. If I dont call her today then Im walking away. Is this a good idea?
RoboRoy Posted November 14, 2004 Posted November 14, 2004 Yes.. Let her go..If she reacts to the card then rethink.. But you have to get on with your life.
MassiveAtom Posted November 14, 2004 Posted November 14, 2004 I was just thinking about the same thing tonight. My wife decided she doesn't want to be married and its because she doesn't think I'm the right person. She thinks she's going to find someone who's perfect and who's happy no matter what. It's just insane. But I came to the conclusion while putting my daughters to bed. I have to be happy without her, if I'm ever to be happy with her. Nothing would make me happier than to be with her, But I'll look inside to find the only happiness that matters. Happiness with myself. We can't look to anyone else for our happiness, we can't ever make anyone else responsible for our happiness. that's giving away too much power. We all have to be able to find our own happiness within ourselves, and not let anyone take that away. Hang in there, Live your life strongly, and with faith that you are the most important person in your universe. Stand up, dust yourself off. The world is still here and so are you. Look inside for your answers. They'll make you happier than any woman ever could. My practical Opinion, Let her go.
Author MissingHerBad Posted November 16, 2004 Author Posted November 16, 2004 Well its Tuesday. The card would have arrived by now. NOTHING. Absolutely nothing. I gues it really is it however I will always be baffeled to how some people can detach that fast. I guess whoever gets me will be lucky because once I attach I never want to detach... I am starting to feel better. Thinking of some of the bad things that she has done to me. It making more frustrating which in the end I think will help. Any other suggestions?
Weird Posted November 16, 2004 Posted November 16, 2004 there is the possibility she hasn't got the card yet. Give it a few more days before forming a conclusion.
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