zizzle Posted August 28, 2013 Posted August 28, 2013 Hello, i am 21, male, and secretly in love with that special girl for years. (Nearly 5-6 years, to be precise) We know each other for a long time, she always thought me as a good friend, but my intentions and thoughts were always different. Finally i am thinking about talking with her about my feelings, but a trustworthy mutual friend of ours told me that she is currently dating with someone else. There is a high chance for me to see her this week and i will finally tell her about my true thoughts. Any ideas about what should i do? Is there anything for me to win her heart, when she is already dating this other guy? Is it right to do, talking with her about my feelings in this situation? Please write your opinions, i want to hear as much as possible, i never had deep relationships before and i want this girl to be mine, eternally.
todreaminblue Posted August 28, 2013 Posted August 28, 2013 (edited) I am sorry your love is unrequited ..know the feeling and it suuuucks ..big time.......but however strongly you feel for her,it is no reason to go for someone in a relationship if it ends and she is free and healed go for it buddy, but she is taken.. her heart is taken not available for you...... eternal love has a great deal of respect attached to the person you love...if you respect her...you will not and i repeat .if you respect her really as you say you do profess to love her..you will not disrespect her choices, her current relationship or her for that matter, by telling her how you feel while she is in a relationship. you will have a very uncomfortable situation......if you do and she is a good girl with a good heart........she will probably end the friendship, or at least make it very distant it would be different if you werent aware that her heart was taken and you told her how you feel, but you are aware ...so no excuses........ i wish you much love and light with someone that loves you and only you...you need to keep your distance, have limited contact and let her go...... maybe one day life is never set in stone by us....we can change and adapt and make choices we nevr thought we would..we just dont know what gods plan is for us not fully eh has the final say .....but she isnt for you now thats for sure..i would suggest you find someone single who wants to be with you as much as you want them.good luck...deb Edited August 28, 2013 by todreaminblue
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