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Today my ex deleted me from Facebook. I did contact him just asking him to return my things (via a family member of course, I don't want to see him) and he agreed.

 

It looks like NC starts here. I'm surprisingly fine with that. But that's what worries me. I don't feel anything. I cried, but at the same time I felt no pain. There was some sadness, but not the overwhelming sadness I expected. I don't even think I'm numb. So what does this mean for me? Will the pain eventually hit me? Or am I more alright with this than I thought?

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No one can tell you how you will feel in a week.

 

Sure you could just be numb.

 

It may hit you.

 

Or your just over it because you know it wasnt right.

 

Don't get too ahead of yourself.

 

Let things come naturally, and grit your teeth and fight every step of the way.

 

 

 

 

 

Barky

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You are indeed numb. Being numb means questioning what the hell is going on. You know you should feel something and you don't and this is because not enough time has passed to show you what you will miss.

 

Enjoy it while it lasts.

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You are indeed numb. Being numb means questioning what the hell is going on. You know you should feel something and you don't and this is because not enough time has passed to show you what you will miss.

 

Enjoy it while it lasts.

 

I feared that would be the case. I can only hope you're wrong, I've been through enough pain with him leaving me. I've been through a breakup before and any pain I felt then always came on immediately, so I'm not sure why it's not the same this time around.

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I feared that would be the case. I can only hope you're wrong, I've been through enough pain with him leaving me. I've been through a breakup before and any pain I felt then always came on immediately, so I'm not sure why it's not the same this time around.

 

You are thinking about it too much. In reality, it will hit you. I wish it wouldn't, and I wish you were the exception, but in time you will see that you were just numb. I'm sorry.

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