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What.in.thee.eff. My ex just asked me out to the movies.....


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I'm in shock.

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Was it a bad relationship? Do you want him/her back? Why did you break up?

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He dumped me because he "loved me but wasn't in love"

 

Meh.

 

He's young and has some, no scratch that, ALOT of growing up to do.

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Well what do you want here? If you can go with no feelings attached, then go for it. If not, just don't respond. If you feel like he has a lot of maturing to do, then don't go into things expecting anything but a movie.

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Well what do you want here? If you can go with no feelings attached, then go for it. If not, just don't respond. If you feel like he has a lot of maturing to do, then don't go into things expecting anything but a movie.

Yeah, I don't think that I can go into it without wanting/needing more from him.

 

He definitely has a ton of maturing to do.

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Don't do it. I don't know you whole story but that's very similar in how I got back together my exgf and nothing changed on her part and I had to go through a second breakup..just as bad as the first on. Just my 2 cents but avoid the pain it could cause you down the road. Big things need to be changed before you should even consider going a movie together.

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I'm in shock.

 

I'm not. Let me guess, he's been drifting from your thoughts lately and you've started to feel a little (or a lot) better recently?

 

Do what you think is best! An invitation to the movies could mean a lot of things, so I would suggest declining or not responding if you have any expectations for it.

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