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I feel il never meet someone else


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It's been four years since I got dumped by my ex and I still think about him everyday.We've had various periods of NC but due to my lack of willpower I have responded to his attempts at contact with him.He met up with me recently was all over me etc and then told me he'd never get back with me ever.He's moved to the other side of the world now for a few years and I still can't get him out of my head.I've never been like this with anyone else I'm so frustrated with myself and I'm beginning to think il never get over it.I've had a few dates etc but not a boyfriend and despite many attempts I cant meet anyone else I'm so frustrated.I really want to get over this and get a new boyfriend.

I think part of the reason I cling on is that I really want a boyfriend I am sick of single.I'm 23 and I'm sweating I won't ever meet anyone as I go out try hard but don't meet guys unless it the drunk ones who chat anyone up.

Should I just give up accept il be single and il never get over a guy who doesn't want me?I just feel like in hitting my head against a brickwall when I go out in the hope il meet a guy.

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First, you should embrace being single. Life is so much easier and low maintenance when you are.

 

 

secondly, I got the impression that you kinds just wait for guys to come to you with you comment of " unless its the drunk ones who chat anyone up "

 

 

Do not be afraid to approach a man and start a conversation. Express obvious interest and either wait for him to make a move, or do it yourself. You also need to forget about.your ex. Its been 4 years. The guy is not coming back.

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Until you learn to be happy with yourself, you're not going to find it easy to develop a healthy relationship. This begins with not needing validation from someone else to find self worth.

 

As to your ex, you need to drop contact with him if you are ever going to let him go. It's been 4 years, 4 years you've wasted hanging onto him even though he made it clear he doesn't want to be with you. Don't waste anymore time on him.

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And you're only 23!!! Your life is just starting! (or at least it will if you let it!)

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