xmarvin88x Posted August 28, 2013 Posted August 28, 2013 Im going to keep it short as possible, here I go. -She is 18, I am 22 -Dated this girl for 6 months -She starts texting/flirting with this guy -We fight about it -We break up they get together days later (she denies they are together) -Says she doesn't want to lose me -I begged pleaded everything done wrong -I go no contact for 2 weeks -She begs me to talk to her so I meet her -She tells me she screwed up, she got scared about our relationship (im her first for everything) -She tells me she loves me, misses me, etc... -We hang out twice -She cheats on her boyfriend with me -I fell back into the begging stage -She tells me she needs to think about it -Still with the boyfriend hasn't told him -She gets jealous of other girls Options; -Not worrying about it take it day by day -Telling her boyfriend say @#$@ them both move on -Letting it all go move on -Stay her friend forever breaking my own heart -Keep @#$@ her brains out and become an emotionless #%^& bag
crederer Posted August 28, 2013 Posted August 28, 2013 She's not emotionally mature enough to be in a relationship. Move on, don't talk to her or him, and if things change down the road, maybe consider getting back together (I'm talking 5 or 6 years down the road, btw). 1
Keenly Posted August 28, 2013 Posted August 28, 2013 You already know the answer. Next time she tries to contact you just respond with " look I'm getting tired of the BS. I care about you, but I'm a not a toy to be used and then discarded when you get bored. You have a good life, because I'm out, and moving on. " Then stop talking to her completely. Don't respond. Don't contact. Nothing. 1
soccerrprp Posted August 28, 2013 Posted August 28, 2013 (edited) xmarvin88x, Way too much drama, indecision, cheating already from her. She is willing to cheat on her current bf. Doesn't this alert you to some trust issues? Got together with a guy DAYS later and tried to deny it....please, please move on. She tells you that she needs to "think about it" after everything she said she felt about you and you felt about her? Please move on. Your heart may bruised by this, but I see a future of serious heart-ache if you keep yourself preoccupied and engrossed in this girl's antics and behavior. Good luck! Edited August 28, 2013 by soccerrprp 1
Author xmarvin88x Posted August 28, 2013 Author Posted August 28, 2013 Thanks for the insight guys. Greatly appreciated.
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