raider89 Posted August 28, 2013 Posted August 28, 2013 While my last topic was the whole story of what lead to the time and space she needed which came out of nowhere. She turned 21 on friday, it was the tuesday before when she called on the break and it wasnt until sunday night I went to a concert for some fun and temptation came into place and I got intoxicated and decided to send her a nice mean text message saying "I guess this is it since you havent text me or called me or let me know whats going on that it's over, called her this and that. 10 Seconds later I get a call and her just sounding hurt and not knowing what's going on and sounding very confused and upset saying she just needed time and space to think and she never broke up with me or wanted too and she said she told me that which really when i asked if we was still together i got a "idk" every time, that doesnt justify as yes we are. She said she planned on texting me that morning when she got up. I ended up going over there sunday for her family dinner for her birthday, and it was a little awkward at first cause her parents didnt know or family know what was really going on. She said she didnt wanna go out and act single, because she wasnt single. and that the time she needed time and space to think just happen to fall on that weekend and was bad timing. Now that were back together and everything seems fine again and she was very apologetic about it. The real question I have here is that I just need closure on this matter, learn why she needed space what caused it, because it did happen out of nowhere i never got the explanation just a idk and i need time and space to think. Should I sit down with her and just have a nice long talk about it and discuss that way I can put all of this behind me? How should I go about it? What questions should I ask and how?
barky2 Posted August 28, 2013 Posted August 28, 2013 Id be open with her about it. 2nd chances are extremely fragile...communication is a must. Just simply ask, hey what happened? You may not get the answer you want You may dig more Who knows what will come of it IMHO...its in the past leave it there. You are no longer there Barky 2
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